so annoyed

[nsd_user663_59440]

Really peaved off today, its my birthday n all day my dad n hes wife has been ither in bed or up the pub... yes it does happen every sunday but my birthdays once every year, last year, I was living 45miles away so didnt see them (only interested in seeing my dad not hes wife) n therenot bothered this year..... ive had to cook the roast n everything! Really want a fag right now, seriously dont no why I bothered in the 1st place... oh n another thing my dads wifes uncle hasnt even said happy birthday! N I have to cook for him all the time aswell! Ive done so much for all 3 of em n there not bothered!.... on a good note the other half has been amazing

sorry about the blabbering essay

[nsd_user663_54332]

Aww that's a shame Hayley

This sounds totally stupid and blatently obvious but if you smoked now:

Your dad's wife would still be selfish

If smoking made your dad better, mine would be running the London Marathon

You'd still have worked your backside off

You'd still be (rightly) p!ssed off.

What would it make better?

Have a rant, sulk, go out with your boyfriend but don't smoke 'cos all it does is make you poor, smelly and ill.

((Hug)) stick with it hun

[nsd_user663_59440]

I will, its just the respect, when I moved back to look after my dad, I had a full time job in a carehome for dementia, was going to start my nvq3 with them, I was team leader on all my shifts, made friends ect ect my life wasnt perfect but it was better then this, now im bending over backwards.,, n not getting any respect back xx

[nsd_user663_54332]

Know what you mean hun, believe me I know it's not easy being an adult and living at home :eek:

You're doing a lovely thing for your dad, and you've given up a lot to help so it's not fair you get treated like that!!

I think parents always see you as a kid, no matter how old you get :/

xx

[nsd_user663_59440]

Lol the stoopid 'step mums' smoking infrount of me now.... think im off to the council monday!!!! Thank you xx

[nsd_user663_54332]

Lol the stoopid 'step mums' smoking infrount of me now.... think im off to the council monday!!!! Thank you xx

That's just b.loody unfair, especially as you're so new in your quit!!

Don't blame you going to the council, good luck and i hope you have a happy rest of your birthday with your OH xx

[nsd_user663_59440]

Thank you both fingers crossed ay xx

[AngryBear]

Let them all get on with it Hayley; stay "proud" and concentrate on you as you're doing. The world will carry on, but you're making the difference for yourself. Happy Birthday by the way

[nsd_user663_59440]

All I ask for is a little respect... n the smoking infrount of me I feel soo tiny... I understand its raining n noone really wants to go outside when its raining but fusk off in the kitchen or atleast ask if ill b ok with it! No respect! N people wonder why I dont like her... dont worry I wont smoke I think its discusting! Just thoughts! Thank you xx

[nsd_user663_57259]

Happy birthday but sorry it wasn't as nice as it should've been for you. Well done for not caving!! You are doing brilliantly!!

Sarah

[nsd_user663_54332]

All I ask for is a little respect... n the smoking infrount of me I feel soo tiny... I understand its raining n noone really wants to go outside when its raining but fusk off in the kitchen or atleast ask if ill b ok with it! No respect! N people wonder why I dont like her... dont worry I wont smoke I think its discusting! Just thoughts! Thank you xx

What you need to remember Hayley is that deep down, all smokers want to stop. Even in my happiest days as a smoker (and I did love it) if someone offered me a magic wand that would take my need to smoke away I'd have taken it.

Every smoker feels a bit bad when someone stops, am sure you know the feeling - I definitely do - but some smokers, the nasty ones, try to sabotage it.

They do this because they're jealous of you, and your success breaking the addiction they can't.

Pathetic really isn't it?

[nsd_user663_59440]

Thanks sarah, and yes thats totally right, ill get there n im a non smoker, its not changing now x