Not a happy bunny

When I gave up smoking.. Me my mum and dad all gave up together.. My dad turned up to today and I cud smell fags on him so I asked him if he bin smoking and he said no.. 2 mins after my mum txt me and said 3 fags fell out of ur dads coat today.. He doesn't no she seen um.. So challenge my dad again and he said he has.. Although I was trying to be nice to my dad and saying never mind just get. Back on the patches again I feel really sad like it's me that's smoked.. I feel let down as it was something we were s doing together... And feel bad for my mum as she said she cud smell fags on him last week and he said it was all in her mind..

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  • Back on the patches again I feel really sad like it's me that's smoked.. I feel let down as it was something we were s doing together... And feel bad for my mum as she said she cud smell fags on him last week and he said it was all in her mind..

    Hey 48 days? That's some going....you know how hard it is giving this thing up; at least YOU haven't smoked, and that's all you can do, you can be supportive of others but you can only influence yourself....I've thought about having a drag every now and then during the 16 days I've been off the cigs, and I've considered lying about it if challenged :o hopefully your Dad will get back on it in his own time. My teenage lad, who's never smoked thankfully even though he's 17, keeps moaning about the fact that his mum keeps saying she will quit and never manages it; I have to point out to him just how addictive it all is, bless him I still don't think he understands but that's no bad thing I guess :)

  • Shelly

    You know how hard it is to give. I imagine it must be so much harder when trying to do it as a part of a team. I think we all have our right time to quit. That time when it just feels right for you and you know theres a chance you can do it. The chances of three of you having that I can do it moment all at the same time is unlikely to happen. Just give him a hug and forgive those little white lies as I bet he feels worse than you that he has let you down. You keep on with your quit and show him it can be done and hopefully his time will follow soon.

    H

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