Day 3 - what a joy!!!

I cannot believe I am posting on day three!! Had quite a good day today, I was out of the office with work so quite easy not to smoke. What ruined the whole day was my husband when I got home and we had an argument said: 'I think I preferred you smoking' That was the most hurtful thing ever but decided it wasn't going to get to me as I am doing it for myself, not him!!! It is very helpful reading how everybody else is doing on day 3 and see how we are all doing great, and although there is so much temptation we are still hanging on!! Tomorrow day four!!!!

Marta:)

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  • I cannot believe I am posting on day three!!

    Great stuff. You better just take the easy way out and believe it.

    What ruined the whole day was my husband when I got home and we had an argument said: 'I think I preferred you smoking' That was the most hurtful thing ever but decided it wasn't going to get to me as I am doing it for myself, not him!!!

    Some folk can be just so hurtful, but when you really look at it, it's them that are hurting. Probably in his case he's confused with the changes. It's such a fundamental change to us as individuals and sometimes we lose sight of those around us. That said, slap him upside the head anyway!

    Tomorrow day four!!!!

    Keep reeling them in, Marta.

    Cav

  • Hello Marta,

    Day three already looking forward to hearing how well you are doing on day 4, yeah and what Cavalier said up side the head.;)

    Stay strong

    Wayne

  • hi 929,,day 3 wow,,you are doing so well ,you have made the best dissision,you will ever make in your life..when you stop smoking ,the only thing you will be giving up ---is the illusion that smoking is an essential pleasure,,so be strong 929 and you will be ok,,you just keep the faith tony,:

    keep :D:D:D

  • Well done! Big claps to you as well! We are both now on day 4. Thats more than halfway through the first week! Hurrah!

  • Hi Marta and Fiona :)

    well done to you both on day 4 you are doing so well

    Marta as you said you are doing this for you I am sure your husband did not mean to hurt you but is finding it difficult to cope with or maybe understand the changes but he will be so proud of you. Just give him time

    Meanwhile just hang in there

    All the best to you both

  • Thanks for all your posts, it does keep me going!!! Marta xx

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