Hi all, I'm new to this group and need support! Christmas Day was really lovely but as usual I was the but of everyone's jokes because I'm fat. Things like, 'better get some of what's in front of Sam before she eats it all' and 'careful because Sam has seen you unwrap chocolates and she might snatch it out of your hand' Normally I can take it all in my stride but as I came home in the car I had to fight back tears until I was in the safety of the shower where I can cry about my weight without the shame. I've got to change things and any advice would be greatly received. Advice from my family is normally along the lines of PUT THE FORK DOWN which doesn't help :(. I'm proper miserable and not at all jolly on the inside. I might be fat but my feelings are still the same. Sorry to be such a moan at Christmas time.