My wife has just entered the third trimester and our relationship has broken down completely.
Back in November I discovered that she was having relations with at least two other men via the internet - she is adamant that it was only texts and pictures but one guy only lives a 5 minute walk away and he is a house-husband, and I work away a lot and so there is no trust in our relationship and I have to suffer the humiliation of getting my sons and myself tested now.
We already have a 20 month old son and our second boy is due in April.
I am preparing myself mentally to split and try to provide a nice home for my boys to come to, but I am concerned that if I put the wheels in motion now then it may affect the pregnancy as my wife does tend to act childish when she is challenged and can neglect herself.
My question really is to ask you if you were in our shoes, would you rather things just get done and dusted and we move on with our lives or would it be best to wait till the baby is born and we move on from there?
I have sought some professional advice, and I am also visiting her therapist next week to discuss but I thought I would ask for the opinions of other people going through a pregnancy for their thoughts?