This is a challenging time for a lot of people, especially us. We are all in some way trying to meet expectations ours and others. Of course, this can lead to a disaster for us as we are no longer what we once were, and may not accept that until we fall and can not get back up. This causes us stress, pain and anguish and frustration for others, We look the same, why can we not perform the same? "NO" "YOU" are not being lazy "YOU" are going to be smart. Learn to say "NO" and mean it and say it.
Do "YOU" remember granddad who supervisors eat then falls asleep in the couch after eating his fill? Be that person. Announce loudly and strongly that others have to step up and do, because "YOU" can not or should not. Appoint somebody to watch "YOU" and when "YOU" try too much to pull "YOU" aside and sit "YOU" down. I would very much like to talk to you on boxing day (26 Dec) so tone it down, do not be a superwoman or man, be smart and enjoy the season. "YOU have Relapsing Remitting ms (RRms) and "YOU" have to be smart and careful. Save your energy for workouts next year.
This is a time to be happy and cheerful, "YOU" having paramedics called is not the way to enjoy the last weeks of 2018.
slow down, relax and enjoy the season