My ex told me the other day that I never loved him and only married him for an “easy ride”. I reminded him that when we married I was making between $55,000 - 65,000 annually depending on my bonus. I got diagnosed three months after our wedding. He said such hateful things. Now of course I am trying to let them roll off my back and not fall deep into relapse mode. I have loved this man so deeply and learned the hard lesson to never love like that again, it can just hurt too much.
FYI my dear friend and surrogate mom Jonnie came through her brain surgery well. Thank you all for your prayers in her behalf. God bless you. Kelly xx
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Why do people feel the need to say such things? I am not the kind to dwell on such things most of the time but I know that deep down, it really hurts. It is probably part of the healing process.
I am so happy to hear good news regarding your surrogate mom, and pray that she continues to get better every day.
What? Mr visits everyday and leaves after a kiss said this nonsense? Or did you stop letting him use you every day and now he’s mad and finding new fun ways to hurt you? To hurt you enough to throw you in the hospital?... it’s not like he isn’t aware of the damage he could be doing 😡. I’m starting to think you dodged a bullet here and someday you’ll see the blessing in all of this.
GL with letting that roll, it sounds impossible to me, but I know you’re a rock star and have already found more strength than you ever expected. It hurts. It sucks. He sucks. MS sucks. Divorce sucks. Lots of love to you, Kelly, and I’m glad you came back to let it out here 🤗😘
Fantastic news on Jonnie! She probably has a long road ahead of her and likely could use your attention in the next few months. Maybe you need her to need you right now too.
I’m certainly not making any excuses for such behavior, but MS (unfortunately) is a disease that gets shared with those around us. I know how taxing it is on my wife and she can be uncaring at times. I know she loves me and is carrying the load for most of time. Sometimes this just sucks!
I'm sorry your ex is still showing his true colors to this day! I know it's easier said than done to let it roll off your back. Try to take care of yourself at this time. Glad to hear Jonnie made it through her surgery! Hugs my friend!
Oh Kelley, so sorry he's being like this & i hear you! It's beautiful 💐when it's around (Love❤) but it is evil👿😡 when it's Gone!!😭 We also weep for & with U too, But also know you're a true Warrior, & glad your mom came thru & like others have said, she'll need u right now, hopefully that can get ur mind off the Ex!😘😍👍 We all Love You & Glad u vent here cuz ur family here!💙💛💚❤💗 much Prayers🙏🙏🙏& hugs, Blessings sweety!---🌹💜Jazzy
P.S. Kelley, just received my "I'm a Warrior with an invisible Cause", Keychain, & I love it, it's Awesome! Thanks for telling us about it, they should make t-shirts with tht too...😍💙❤👍👍👍
I'm thrilled to hear about Jonnie! I am so sad to hear about your ex and his mean comments to you. Sounds like he's trying to find someone to blame for his own shortcomings, perhaps. Should you choose to love again, you'll have years of experience behind you to help you avoid loving someone like your ex. I'll keep praying for healing from all the hurt you've gone through and are still dealing with.
that was plain hateful,not that this is your case but I have found a lot of anger that comes out of peoples mouth, is actually big time fear,including myself at times,big hugs you are not alone
Move on. He's not worth it. He is in fact, a piece of trash.
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