The power of setting goals for yourself! - My MSAA Community

My MSAA Community

9,212 members20,958 posts

The power of setting goals for yourself!

Fancy1959 profile image
9 Replies

Set goals for yourself that you can achieve. Keep them in front of yourself and put reminders around you of the goals that you are working toward. It is often so easy to slack off the commitment you've made to yourself because, if you're trying to lose weight, there might be brownies on the counter or snacks in the fridge and after all what will one hurt!

But if you have something really important to yourself and you said it as your goal to achieve it can really provide the incentive you need to stick to your goal and follow whatever protocol it will take to get you to that goal.

As an example, many of you had known that I had recently broken my right knee cap due to taking fall After Fall on it. I went back to my orthopedic surgeon who was brilliant enough to say let's not operate let's just put it in a immobilizing splint for 6 weeks and stay off of it as much as possible. At the end of six weeks the X-ray showed the unbelievable news that my knee had healed itself. You could see the hairline fracture on the X-ray and as a cloudy line but the knee was back to its normal self. The swelling was gone as was most of the pain in the knee. I got permission to start to use it more and more, but of course I didn't tell the surgeon that I hadn't had the splint on in 3 weeks and I've been using it on my own. I had even been on my recumbent bicycle a time or two on it. Now that isn't the best example to follow I freely admit it so don't follow in my footsteps. Do as your doctors and your surgeons say not as I did. Oops. So with permission to start using my knee more and more of course the first question that popped out of my mouth was can I start riding a horse again. My surgeon hesitated a bit but after I assured her of the quietness of our horses she gave me permission to start slowly. ( Like I know the meaning of that word.)

So with my goal and my mindset is riding before the end of the Fall I knew I had several things to accomplish. First I had to lose at least 25 pounds that I had picked up since last year. It's easy to eat when your leg is immobilized and not be able to get up or move around much at all so the weight goes on. I am happy to report that I am already down 14 lbs. It's amazing what wanting to ride a horse bad enough will do to encourage my snacking to end.

Second goal that I set for myself is to strengthen my legs before I try to ride again. To move in that direction I have been on my recumbent bicycle every night for the past 8 days and I am currently doing an easy 40 to 45 minutes a night on the bike. Not only is it strengthening my knee it is also bringing much-needed muscle tone back into my legs. The third and final thing I have worked on is my arm strength. I know I need to be able to mount my horse and thus have the legs underneath me in the arms above me with enough strength to pull myself into the saddle. I'm simply right now using 2 lb weights and doing reps with each arm and using resistance bands 2 work the arms in various positions to help mount a horse. I feel as if I'm well on my way toward my goal of riding before the end of the year!

What goal have you put off because it seems too insurmountable for you to conquer? Put it in front of you and break it down into little Parts like I have done. Why one part is my weight. My second part is my leg strength. The third part is my arm strength. Looking at it as three parts that becomes much more surmountable then if you say I want to ride my horse again.

Set your goals in front of you and use them as incentive for you 2 conquer your goals. If I can do it you can do it. Let's make a share your goal Club out of this post and keep track on each other weekly to see how we are doing with our goals. If we work together and support one another we can keep each other on track and our goals will be met before we know it! Yeehaw here I come horses, watch out!

Written by
Fancy1959 profile image
Fancy1959
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
9 Replies
Kenu profile image
Kenu

Good for you, sounds like you have it going in the right direction 👍🙏🐾😉. Ken

carolek572 profile image
carolek572CommunityAmbassador

Fancy1959,

Very inspirational. I will set a goal of losing weight. There, I said it. Now, I need a plan!

Carole :-D

jimeka profile image
jimeka

Oh to be able to ride a horse again. The fun, the freedom, the wind blowing through your hair as you gallop round the field. Being one on one with a horse is an incredible feeling. I am so pleased that you are back in the saddle, enjoy, I envy you. Blessings Jimeka 🐴 🦋

Fancy1959 profile image
Fancy1959 in reply to jimeka

What gets me the most is to feel the power of the spective first piece underneath you and you control it so effortlessly. It's had a feeling and I agree with you unless you've experienced it you don't understand that you're missing! 😁🐎 I wish you were closer so you too cuz enjoy the pleasure of riding again. But at our age we have to go slightly slower. My days of galloping through the meadow and or on the beach long gone.☹I don't seem to bounce like I used to!

Jazzyinco profile image
Jazzyinco

Fancy, yeppers me too, I'm bound in my goal to also ride again🐎🐎🐎, before summer's end!!🌞 Thanks for motivating me again sweety!💜💗💖💛😍Love & Prayers & Blessings---Jazmine 🌹Rose

Fancy1959 profile image
Fancy1959 in reply to Jazzyinco

Jazzyinco, giddy up and go girl! How long has it been since you been in the saddle? I haven't ridden since early last year and it's driving me nuts. And even then my husband and Sons literally had to put me on the horse and help get you off of the horse. I don't want to do that again I want to try to get self-sufficient to a much larger degree! Good luck in your quest . Let's keep tabs on each other and be a mini support group for the goal of riding this year!

erash profile image
erash

Thru hypnosis and virtual experiences , we can achieve the feelings of the impossible. Check out Dr. Emmett Miller's YouTube videos on deep relaxation. I will find the link and post. The other day he helped me run down the beach through the waves, my hair flying, salt and sand in my face. It was wonderful...and it also made me tearful...but for a moment, I was there again ❤️

erash profile image
erash in reply to erash

Here

youtu.be/-JyoHcF5oQ4

Fancy1959 profile image
Fancy1959 in reply to erash

Erash, it's Fancy1959. That sounds incredible! I'd love to find out more about it. Thanks.

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

The Power of Friendships!

be there whenever you need it that makes you feel 10 ft tall because you know you always have backup

The powers back on 💡🔌

Power was out for 36 hours

took out part of a neighbor's tree and it landed on some lines in their yard, against their front...

WOKE UP TO NO POWER!!

so we could go get coffee at the truck stop … He had been up since 7:30 with NO COFFEE!! Poor...

shift how you view yourself and value yourself

came across this today. what's it like to believe you deserve unconditional love? and treated...