Hello, I am new to this site but have been reading hundreds of posts on various sites. Does any of them address the problems when the husband doesn't stay, the physical and emotional support is gone? My husband of 42 years walked out two months ago with the woman he brought into my home to assist with my care. According to him, he started affair with her 3 months before he brought her to our home and thought she would be professional about it. Everybody writes feel good inspiring notes but where are the real feeling? By one source I found, the divorce/separation rate is 1 in 5 when the wife is diagnosed with MS and 3 in 100 when the husband is diagnosed. I am trying to work thru this but it would be nice to talk with some people who don't live in that magical, brave, inspiring world.