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ShanEWils
ShanEWils
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My husband has been away since Monday this week. He came back today but the pissy ass attitude and it was bad enough that it opens up my child. Now that is her father and she wanted to stay awake until he got home because she was excited to see him. Unfortunately now she is going to bed pissed off and upset because he came home like an asshole not that she was still awake and outside playing at 11 p.m. God freaking forbid I ever let her be awake to see the other person responsible for her life. I actually told him I wish you would have stayed where he was. That way we would not have had to deal with the BS that he brought home with him

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Sorry to hear about your husband and his attitude 😠. I would have been so excited to see my child waiting up for me. My boy is twenty five and I can’t hardly go two days without taking to him. You should not have to put up with his BS and that’s called verbal abuse! Just as bad as physical 😠. He needs an attitude adjustment. Lock him out next time and see how he likes it. My wife and I had disagreements thru the years but never in front of our son. Kids have enough problems growing up and don’t need adult problems to deal with. Maybe he needs some counseling πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™‚οΈ. πŸ™πŸ˜‰πŸΎKen

ShanEWils
ShanEWils
in reply to Kenu

He "does not need counseling....that's all you and (child name) you two have all the mental issues".

This is the norm for us.

It just pissed me the eff off because yes it was something to 11pm and she was up and outside catching lightening bugs, but there was no reason to act like that.

Now we are being griped at again this morning. 😑

πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈNo Words

bxrmom
bxrmom
in reply to ShanEWils

I am sorry you and your daughter have to deal with this. If he didn't change his attitude I would be showing him the door. Don't want to put up the childish behavior from an adult!

Kenu
Kenu
in reply to ShanEWils

Sorry if my comment pissed you off. Ken

ShanEWils
ShanEWils
in reply to Kenu

Know your comment did not piss me off the quotes are what he would say every time I mentioned counseling. Sorry if it came across the wrong way

Jesmcd2
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I'm sorry ShanEWils , that's about all this man hating person can say right now! πŸ€—πŸ’• Just stay strong and show your daughter the right way to be treated! Always! With respect! You deserve no less!

J🌠

We have been together since 1998 and honestly we didn't have problems until we had our daughter in 2011

It all starts from little things then turns to worst. First verbal and then gradually turns physical. Put your foot down and let him know that you will not tolerate this kind of behavior now or ever. If he wants to act like an a** then he can be treated like one. ❀🌷

I am so sorry that you're through all of this.

I want you to know that I went through a similar situation. You are not alone.

Now, try and pick up what am about to lay down. I am a Christian. I understand that women stay in situations where they depend upon the man's money or security, they do not want to admit the embarrassing situation to their relatives and friends, or they stay because they feel like they can do no better.

Here is what I believe:

International Version

"A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies."

Step out on faith. The Lord will never, never let you down

Amen!!! 😊❀🌷

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