Hi peeps, I posted around 2 months ago about the same thing.
My partner is really struggling with depression and still can't acknowledge the fact that he has ms, he was diagnosed 5 years ago this year.
I try absolutely everything in my power to help him and I learn about his condition and ways to help it etc almost every day, he still can't describe what he has as it's like he chooses not to take anything in.
It's such a struggle and our relationship is non existent. I set him up on here ages ago to chat to people as he has no friends or relatives to talk to apart from me and hes posted once to my knowledge. I set a healthy diet for us both and moderate exercise and we go out travelling all the time as he hates to be at home. We've lots of trips away booked to look forward to. We go out at least once a week for a drink and he trys to socialise.
He's very lucky as his ms has no effect on him at the moment apart from his speech so he is fly able to do absolutely everything but shows very little interest in anything.
It's heartbreaking to watch and it hurts me in ways he probably doesn't realise, I've tried to talk to him but nothing changes π I know none of this is his fault but it's so exhausting. I don't have time to be unhappy or upset because I need to keep up the smiles and happy face for us both everyday.
He is on medication for his ms and depression, he's slightly better than he was but not really showing any signs of light at the end of the tunnel shall we say.
I so badly want to help him but I really think I've hit a brick wall. His argument is why bother, he seems to have given up on himself and me π’ I guess you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved xx