Well going to iocdf in July and my car getting broken into were fun.
things seem to be - they aren't mellow
things aren't mellow
ever deal with politics - you don't want to be talked about in a certain way
I have no control over my emotions
I'm not making the financial goals I promised to others
I feel hopeless and ugly.
I'm in a situation my former self would have gotten out of immediately
I can't concentrate to make money
I joined a $600 program on how to make money to realize
the moderators are unexperienced and the main reason I joined was for the accountability and community - but the program I have is old so the focus isn't as much on that one program anymore. I could do the moderators job better - but don't do that apparently.
I'm trying to think how I did in 2015 with people I knew those years
but in reconnecting with them - I can't go back to that sane sense of self - I have this ocd - in focusing on this ocd - I know I'm respected locally for mentioning stuff I shouldn't -
a powerful version of myself wouldn't have put up with this
with a lot of the garbage I'm putting up with - I would have not
I'm depressed and winter is coming - focusing on my flaws has just made me unrelatable to online groups I knew 10 years ago.
I feel entitled - I feel ripped off - but I did rip o- I probably owe them $600 - but this wasn't what I excepted. I'm in a non friendly lgbtq area - so I have to act almost ashamed - I'm in so much debt, my stuff is hacked and is repetivite
where do I feel good - what groups did I feel good in? I'm trying to connect with in person communities I knew back in the late 2010s - who know "I'm not dumb"
I feel like I'm currently around people who either don't understand me or think I'm a moron. They don't understand I'm smart - but I guess I can say the same for them.
I'm in such a toxic situation
and the health - I'm not at the same level of function every day
some days I can do a lot
some days I can't do anything at all.