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I really don’t care for fathers day since my father passed two years ago.. I spent almost two hours crying and spazzing.. I don’t know how many more holidays I got left in me at this point…

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Nor me and my father died nearly 13 years ago now. I always feel very sad when this date comes round too. It does get a bit easier over the years though and not quite as bad. You will always love and miss your dad like I did. Hugs xx

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dezzy21 in reply to hypercat54

I’m sorry for you loss 😔❤️ thanks sm for your reply it made me feel a bit better 🥰🤞 @hypercat54

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I will repeat something someone said on here a while ago about loss of a loved one. They said it's not that your grief becomes less raw but the times it does decreases over time. At first you are there every day, then every other day, then once a week and eventually several times a year. I have found this to be very true.

No-one knows how long they have got before they slip this mortal core.When you have to go, you go, no choice. We and those around us in a frequency that can upset and disrupt our lives.

We need to be able to accept that loss and move on in our Lives, although we never forget this person we need to understand Death is part of life.

BOB

Keep the faith Dezzy 💪🏼😍

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Trying everyday ❤️🤞 hang in there as well. I see you’re going through things also. Hugs. @AlG

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Thanks form across the pond 😍👌🏼

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