Just don’t know what to do anymore

[Alwaystry]

Long story short my ex was seeing someone during our final few weeks together, now she said she has no feelings for me anymore after a year together, getting over it but it’s just come as a shock, very hard to deal with just throwing away the year like that. A lot of people have just said try to get over it but it’s difficult having nobody like that to talk to now and I just get more and more depressed by the day

[Humankind-BE_BOTH]

I can't say I can relate but just the same trying to move on is probably the best thing to do. I have had to sever relationships with toxic family members and I'm better as a result so know that there will be a positive outcome even though it's dark before the dawn

[Hidden]

We all go through periods like this when long relationships go sour. It can and will take time and it will be hard to see what you describe.

Look for Diversions to take your mind of your loss, hobbies or activities do work. You can see your GP however I feel it will be you who will pull yourself around. Consider you have had a close shave with this person and the deception She has brought into the open.

Christmas is a good time to look for someone else, given that get yourself out and about, you will eventually find someone who is like you and has the same needs and expectations as yourself. Lick your bruises and consider how lucky you have been, this was better to happen now, not several years in the future.

BOB

[fauxartist]

look at it as a learning experience ....it's what makes us grow and become stronger, make better decisions for ourself.....we learn what we want and don't want in a relationship, we learn communication skills, and how give and take. If the relationship is balanced, and you feel you are getting as much as you give, it's probably working out for you, but when we have to work at something too hard, it's probably not worth it. Nothing is wasted.