Consulted a lawyer today . was completely stresses to speak

I am completely stressed and disturbed can't speak anything properly. Don't know how i could handle it.

[Stilltrying_]

Oh dear, it can be very difficult trying to find the right words sometimes when we are very anxious . Don't be too hard on yourself about it. Thinking of you and sending my warm wishes. Gemma x

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i Consulted lawyer on the legal notice i received from the employer.where i had quit working because of bullying and harassment.i Would never leave my husband what ever he do, i love him a lot

[Stilltrying_]

I don't think anyone has said to leave your husband, as far as I can see?? I think you do need to make him understand how serious all of this is for you though.

Just going to consult a lawyer is a positive step even though you feel you did not express yourself well. It is not easy talking to people always and you have probably made yourself more clear than you think you have. You may be just feeling very stressed at the moment because it is a big thing having to justify about bullying as often you can feel like you are complaining about nothing or that the bullies will come back after you if you say something to complain about them. So there may be a reluctance on your part or guilty feelings for talking about someone. That's just my thoughts on it anyway. Just try and relax for now and that will help you deal with things better.

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Well done on making that step Amanda

[Suzie40]

I think contacting a lawyer would be a really difficult thing to do. Has your lawyer said they will be able to support you with your tribunal?

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yes but charging bit more

[MsSad]

Hi manas, just wanted to say good luck. x

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bit confused in this.if i win in this others loose their life.if others win i loose my life.both the ways ends in pain.i am not able to decide what i can do.either take every thing on you and suffer else make others to suffer.i feel suffering my self is better when i can't bare other's suffering because of me.but when i take it on me even the people surrounding me should suffer.some how i am making some one suffer.life is very much unpredictable.you keep doing things which you don't want to do.

[Stilltrying_]

I hope you don't mean literally lose their life Manas. What you need to do is stand up for the truth in this situation. If you speak the truth you are not making another person suffer, you are merely pointing out what they have done.

Hope this helps and please stay strong. X

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I am ready to speak the truth.but in a fear that i will make some one loose the job. coz someones job is more important than anything.

[MsSad]

Hey manas, your life and health is far more important than the people who have been bullying you at work!!

It is hard ( I have some exp of bullying at work) bur you MUST think of yourself now and be truthful about what happened. You shouldn't feel like you need to protect them. All you need to do is state what happened factually and the rest is down to what they did I.e if they do lose their job it's because of THEIR actions not yours!

Good luck and please look after yourself x

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Thank you MSsad. I will tel the truth.Telling half truth is always giving very much negative effect.if people think i am bad no issues.even though i am not telling truth they think and speak bad only. Hiding things to save some one or to save me does not give solution.When we have not created any harm to any one truth will not be a matter.

[DanOstin]

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