moving on....

what's the best way to forget each and everything about your last relation and everything which happened..?????

i love my sister with same intensity...but perhaps sh does not...at least not now after hurting her...will it look foolish if i get back to her..means if i expect anything from her because she is not my real sister after all..she has her family too...but why i am unable to stop thinking about her...why i love her,care about her,till now??? i know..now i am only a person whom she knows..she does not love me anymore....i want to move on....at least i want to live my life without any thought of her in my mind....help please.........

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the human brain is great at forgetting if you give it plenty of new stuff to remember, be active, study, spend time with lots of people. But entirely forgetting is not possible, learn from your mistakes, understand how not to repeat them, and most of al don't beat yourself up for having done silly things, forgive yourself and others if you want to live well.

i don't know how the sister feels, bit if she is upset/afraid after your past relationship with her, then give her plenty of time and space to recover herself.

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but i regret those mistakes,i want to make new start,want to forget everything.i texted her,but she wont reply i know...all i want is she forgive me,so that i could feel free.

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You will have to try and forget about the past and what might have

Been. No one is happy all the time. Try and accept that we are all

Different if we were Ll the same it would be a funny old world. Take

A step back from your sister and concentrate on getting yourself

Better. Is there anywhere you could go for a break Way from your

Family. I am not sure what age you are. Try and live in the present, it's all

We have we cannot do anything to correct the past and the future has not come yet. Take things day by day and I'm sure things will improve for you

Hannah

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there is no way you can make anyone think what you want them to think.

put yourself in her shoes, how does she feel? if you have sent lots of texts/calls you may have made her decide it is safer not to respond

step back, your emotions are not the only ones to be taken into account.

if you want her to forgive you now it is important to respect her wishes to be left undisturbed.

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i am just feeling lifeless,dont want to get up from my bed.

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Hello BOB here

Sadly I suppose, we all can have these types of problem with family. Just because she is possibly not related to you, if you have known her for a long time the bust up can be just as tasking.

My family is full of sibling rivalry that now has been going on for fifty years and counting, non of my family are nice so now I have completely broken away from them, including those who I got on with over the years. The reason that I did this fully was I did not want family ruining my new life in a different part of the country, I will also most probably now not include ourselves on voters registration documents. To make it more difficult to find us.

So depending on your circumstances it may be just to put it down to experience Do you have other family members that you can latch on too.

My experience is extreme, possibly do you think that she would look for you at a later time, or is the brake so bad and complete that it has a negative conclusion whatever happens.

Personally I feel your pain regarding this although most of us cannot walk in another persons shoes.

If all comes to nought, it is no good crying over spilt milk what is done is done, is She using this break up to cut herself off from you. No body can know that but you and her although it is something too think about

Remember we all need to live our lives as best as we can, hard decisions will need to be taken. Look for outlets that have positive outcomes, remember all that negativity causes, have situations that we need not enter into because of our own sanity

All the best

BOB