Toxic Relationship

[lige]

I have date this girl for 10months now and we have never had sex but each time we video call I do mustarbate

I have tried to leave her 7 times now but she keeps coming back. Please I need your help guys. I don't want to ruin my life in my younger age

[lige]

I am 20 years old.

[Norwich1 Moderator in reply to lige]

can you not block her number? Perhaps stop using her as an aid to masturbation.

[lige in reply to Norwich1]

I can. I'll do that. Thank you

[BobFender]

Hi lige, Be honest with her and yourself. Being in love is more than sex but I understand your need to masturbate when you have contact with this woman. I think sexual attraction is not the same as love. If you have actually met this woman in the flesh then it could be that your body would be a good match for her to reproduce. Chemistry is a part of it too. If you haven’t had actual contact then it must be more of a mental attraction. People can be in love without having sex. Do you think she is also masturbating when you chat? Maybe that’s all she wants. I think it’s good not to be honest.