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Ok so I'm 14. And I have had about 3 girlfriends now.

And I have made out with them and even a little sexually attracted to them. However, when I jerk off I tend to return tofantasy of people I know jerking off. In general, the thought of people my age jerking off makes me super horny. And especially if they are in boxer briefs. I like reading fantasys about mutual masturbation and even occasionally watching gay porn. But I have never wanted to be in a relationship with a guy. When I'm horny there are some cases I fantasize about mutual masturbation and quick thoughts of having sex with them. But the sex thing is super rare. But I would never date a guy! I'm.certain about that. So am a gay? Is this normal? Do any other straight guys do this at my age?

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Human sexuality is very complex and no one fully understands it. At 14 you're still developing physically, emotionally, and sexually. It is not uncommon to be sexually curious, and I know quite a few guys who used to watch porn and used to jerk off together. Most of them grew out of it, some grew into it.

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Experimentation is completely normal for someone of your age, it is part of human development. Regardless of whether you’re straight, gay, bisexual, etc you are completely normal and there is nothing to be ashamed of. I myself used to do the same thing when I was younger, I have never been with a guy either but I wouldn’t identify as “fully” straight, but I also wouldn’t identify as “fully” gay, so I sit somewhere in the middle. I’m only 21, and I’m in a 4 year relationship with a women at the moment, of whom I love dearly. You are normal, you are developing, and you are learning what you like and experiencing different things. Be happy with who you are and enjoy life! ☺️

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I'm a man in my sixties now. When I was fourteen, all I could think about was my friends' dicks. And I did play with some of them. I was remarkably horny, and so were they. We jerked each other off. I was never interested in oral or anal sex, and that turned out lucky, because AIDS was becoming common right about then.

I was very concerned about being gay. Back then, that was problematic. Many people in society were against homosexuality. I guess it's still that way, but fortunately less so.

In my twenties, I started fooling around with girls. At first they weren't that attractive to me. I think the reason is they scared me. My parents weren't all that happy together, and I believe I subconsciously figured if I got married, I'd end up unhappy like my father.

In my early thirties I met my wife. Somehow, we really hit it off. We have been happily married for 30 years. However, from time to time, I'll still jerk off with a guy.

And solo sex, oh wow! I have learned some great techniques for masturbation, and they make me very happy. Yes, I'm married, but I wank more than I do 'things' with my wife. She knows, and is actually relieved, because she isn't usually in the mood, and I don't have to bother her for sex. Sometimes I'll wank in bed right next to her while she's watching a movie or sleeping.

I'm telling you, masturbation is the answer! You can avoid a lot of embarrassing situations in which you might get horny and chase a friend around until he (or she) either agrees gets mad, or blows your cover. Just wank, and become more balanced and satisfied. It will help with focus as well. Have you ever tried to do something like homework, but your mind kept wandering to thoughts of penis? Right, jerk off, then the focusing is easy.

I think we are all on a bisexual scale. Some people may be way straight or way gay, but we're all on the scale somewhere. And the position on the scale varies from time to time.

So that's my story. Your's will be different, but probably a good story in the end also.

Cheers!

Jeremy,

Medibation.com

All guys going through puberty wanks with friends and each other

We all say ..,..... don't tell anyone....but we all do it

It's so natural and far better than solo

Just enjoy yourself

As regards being gay....forget it loads of gay guys don't have full sex Best of luck pal

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