Erectile Issues - Urgent

[madeye96]

I'm 21 years old and when I first started masturbating I experienced the full pleasure of it (around ages 13/14) but for many years now it feels like I'm only feeling around half the pleasure of it or so? almost as if there is more ejaculation to come out once I am finished.

I am able to fully retract my foreskin when flaccid and can still fully retract it when erect but very quickly once I do I typically lose the majority of my erection..

Other possible related issues could be; lack of any self lubrication that the penis usually creates.

This issue has caused be an overwhelming amount of stress and worry. I'm almost certain its not a premature ejaculation issue I have tried many solutions for that and I am generally a pretty confident guy with girls etc etc.

Would really like to hear some genuine answers that could be the issue as so far no doctor has been able to give me anything useful.

[Hidden]

Hi Madeye96,

Is this happening only when you masturbate or during sexual intercourse as well?

Just a couple of quick thoughts for you to consider.

a) Could it be that you're overdoing it a bit in order to try to get the satisfaction you feel is missing, and as a result you're experiencing a weak orgasm?

b) You're getting a bit stressed out, worrying about your 'performance' and that is making the situation worse for you.

There are any number of excellent lubes on the market which may make things a little easier for you, if you're feeling too dry.

Finally your post suggests that you have consulted a doctor; what, if anything, was the outcome?

Here's hoping that the above ideas might prove helpful.

Good luck!

Peter A

[madeye96 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for your reply.

Yes it is happening during both masturbation and sex.

I really don't think I'm overthinking what the satisfaction should feel like as I remember previous times that have had far more satisfaction than what I get now.

It also feels that the orgasm is almost cut off half way through, to which I then usually need to go to the toilet straight after and in some cases even feel a minor bit of more satisfaction doing that which I believe could be a tell of a genuine physical issue going on here.

I know it's common on forums for people with issues in this topic to seem as if they're overreacting or overthinking but please be assured I have been extremely patient with this issue and have tried many different methods to help solve it including lubricants as you mentioned.

[Hidden in reply to madeye96]

Hi Madeye96.

Thanks for your reply.

I think you may have misunderstood my post. I certainly wasn't suggesting that you were in any way imagining or overthinking the problem, but rather that perhaps you had overdone the amount you have been masturbating and/or having sex, and to put it simply, you possibly just need to give your body sufficient time to recuperate? Just a thought.

Have you noticed a decrease in the quantity of ejaculate when you orgasm following masturbation or during sex? I fully appreciate that, for obvious reasons, the latter is a far more difficult question to consider.

Also, it is true that once anxiety creeps into the equation, it can easily become a 'vicious circle', so there could possibly be an issue there.

You mention that no doctor has come up with any useful ideas. Who have you consulted? Perhaps ask to be referred to a urologist and see if he/she can help you?

Personally, at your age (or any age) I wouldn't go down the viagra route, certainly not without medical supervision.

You could try to give yourself a break of two/three weeks from sexual activity and see if that restores your functioning.

Good luck!

Peter A

[jimfromcalif]

Have you tried continuing on after cumming?