Hello, I’m new to this site and found it after doing some worried googling after my surgery and reading through some of the posts on here has helped me calm right down.
My first question is about the wound. I have what I think is a clot? on the underside and my GP told me this is normal and that it’ll fall off by itself. I’m wondering is bleeding from the underside (because the top side hasn’t bled once) normal still after a week? It doesn’t bleed much,I only notice if I go to the toilet and take a look I’ll notice some blood on the underside and then gently dab it off with some tissue. The clot is on the underside and the bleeding seems to be coming from around it. I also noticed tonight there’s a string piece of what I can only assume is skin about a cm long that’s just hanging off the stitch line and I’m also worried about that, if anyone knows anything about that some advice would be appreciated.
Next I’m wondering if I’m not treating myself right post op. Seen a lot of people on here say that they only stopped covering with bandages after 2/3 weeks but I haven’t had a bandage on since I took the original one off as I was advised by my GP (though I know sometimes their advice can be a bit off). I was wearing boxers again after I took the original bandage off which was on the third day I think and just sort of adjust them if I start rubbing on the stitch line of the boxers. Should I be bandaging/covering it if I want to start leaving the house more soon?
Also wondering if it’s normal I don’t get erections at the minute? I can’t fathom what the pain may feel like (even tho I’ve been in no pain apart from the sensitivity up until this point) if I were to get one. I haven’t even had one in the night or morning yet. I seriously think the most beautiful woman could stand naked infront of me and I’d still not get erect. Is this normal lol?
Finally, I shower once a day at the minute which I was also advised to do but that’s it. Should I be soaking my member in water throughout the day at some points or is a shower a day enough to keep the doctor away?
Thanks in advance for any answers and thanks to all of you that post about your circumspections on here as you’ve really helped calm my nerves.