Difficulty ejaculating

[Jazznut]

I'm in my 60s and finding it increasingly hard to climax and ejaculate. (No problem with getting an erection btw, particularly if my GF's hands stray down there, and no problems urinating.) But when the time comes ... nothing happens. Occasionally I've had a completely dry orgasm when on my own, which is nice, but not the real deal. My GF also thought I was faking it once, which I wasn't.

Is this just something that happens with age?

[Petit4incher]

Best advise would b to see ur doctor see if anything underlying causing it

[Jazznut in reply to Petit4incher]

Thanks yes wondering if I should, or whether it's just me expecting that things should be as they were when I was in my 20s.

[GregABC]

I’m early 70s & sometimes get that too If you can keep your erection longer as a result of not coming it can be great for your GF, as you can possibly give her multiple orgasms. My partner can orgasm several times from a combination of my finger foreplay and penetration in a couple of positions. I stay erect and it’s great to see and feel her body react.

[Jazznut in reply to GregABC]

It's mostly hands for us now, as my partner increasingly finds penetration uncomfortable. However, I've discovered by accident how to give her a breast-gasm, so all is not lost! Feeling her body react is one of the most erotic experiences I've had.

[Azymuth]

Are u on any medication?

[Jazznut in reply to Azymuth]

No, and my blood pressure is OK as well.

[Hidden in reply to Azymuth]

This was going to be my question also. I had his same condition a while back and figured out it was the Gabapentin I was taking. Could get an erection and felt really good masturbating but could never achieve an orgasm.

[Haveaquestion1]

I think you get less sensitive with age, especially if you are circumcised.

[Jazznut in reply to Haveaquestion1]

Thanks, thought that might be the case. Am uncircumcised.

[Haveaquestion1 in reply to Jazznut]

If you were circumcised, I would have asked whether your frenulum was left intact. But being uncircumcised that wouldn't be an issue.

[Jazznut in reply to Haveaquestion1]

Indeed ... might be just age!

[Captainwinky41]

This could be retrograde ejaculation , a urologist is the best bet for further work up !

[OneJoker]

go have that conversation with your Doctor mate, see what they think

[VannySlave]

Welcome to vanny club. The things we will do for woman.

[Blueribbon63]

Hi, I have been on Lupron for two years twice with an interruption of two years in between. This second time We stopped the injection and it has been two months since. Tonight somehow I had the urge to masturbate, with a very shrunk penis I did get an erection and an orgasm. A dry orgasm, no semen at all, nothing. It felt good to feel the orgasm, but also it was very frustrating not being able to ejaculate. Would I ever do it again? BTW my PSA has gone off the charts so much! MO said I will have to start chemotherapy in no more than two months when I am scheduled for my next visit. I am not 61 yet, I want to feel normal before this treatment vacation ends. The struggle is unbearable. Thanks for reading.