I'm in my 60s and finding it increasingly hard to climax and ejaculate. (No problem with getting an erection btw, particularly if my GF's hands stray down there, and no problems urinating.) But when the time comes ... nothing happens. Occasionally I've had a completely dry orgasm when on my own, which is nice, but not the real deal. My GF also thought I was faking it once, which I wasn't.
Is this just something that happens with age?
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I’m early 70s & sometimes get that too If you can keep your erection longer as a result of not coming it can be great for your GF, as you can possibly give her multiple orgasms. My partner can orgasm several times from a combination of my finger foreplay and penetration in a couple of positions. I stay erect and it’s great to see and feel her body react.
It's mostly hands for us now, as my partner increasingly finds penetration uncomfortable. However, I've discovered by accident how to give her a breast-gasm, so all is not lost! Feeling her body react is one of the most erotic experiences I've had.
This was going to be my question also. I had his same condition a while back and figured out it was the Gabapentin I was taking. Could get an erection and felt really good masturbating but could never achieve an orgasm.
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