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Anyone onw here suffering with having very small penis soft and good size erect I can't accept it or move forward???

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Jamesmajor profile image
Jamesmajor

Hahaha mate I’m a grower too. People don’t care what it looks like on a flop, that’s not when you use it. Most people prefer a grower than a shower. Stop worrying about it and who ever you meet let them see it on the flop to make yourself more comfortable. Stop stressing buddy

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xsevenx

Shave or trim your pubes. That will make your package appear bigger. And don’t compare yourself with pornstars. Enjoy living in the real world.

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Toby2025 in reply to xsevenx

But it's like micro size soft then 6" erect

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xsevenx in reply to Toby2025

So you are bigger than average erect. Many guys would love to be that size.

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TRAIN-LOVER

Hi

I’ve Always had an issue about my small Penis.

As i described in a earlier post i should have had been circumcised from a baby but for some reason it wasn’t done and my mother used to try to pull my foreskin back to clean but couldn’t as it was hurting me too much. One day she did manage to but wasn’t able to pull it back over the gland as i suspect it swelled up with the tension and had to call a doctor in to get it back

My penis in flaccid state as i’m writing is about the size of my thumb and can sometimes even go inside and virtually disappear so as you probably can understand why i have big issues about it .

I assume there must be a hormonal reason for this during my mother’s pregnancy but i have never pursued finding out.

Having said that if i make it fully erect it grows several times bigger so obviously a grower not a shower,but it doesn’t stay that length after it goes flaccid and always wondered why this happens.

I am trying to pick up courage to see a Doctor about my tight frenulum as sex is painful,but before getting married masturbation was ok because i could control my foreskin movement.

I fully understand your concerns.

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jaglad in reply to TRAIN-LOVER

You have what you have and my advice is to make good use of it.

Most men worry about Penis size at some point in their lives, and most is unwarranted.

Trucklover, go see your Doc' about tight frenulum. Nothing to be concerned about, they're their to help not judge.

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TRAIN-LOVER in reply to jaglad

Thank you for your reply. 👍

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Toby2025 in reply to TRAIN-LOVER

I just wanted to ask i know its personal but have you found a noce women and settled because of your size?

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OneJoker in reply to Toby2025

There is someone out there for everyone mate, not many are concerned about penis size, relationships are more than just sex and what we look like naked

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TRAIN-LOVER in reply to Toby2025

I have a lovely wife,married for 15 years who at first addmited that she was somewhat surprised about my penis size initially but as OneJoker has said relationships are more than sex.

I always thought that my size would never satisfy a woman's need in that department but how wrong I was.

As stated in my other post the only problem is that my short frenulum causes problems in the bedroom department due to pain when my foreskin is pulled back too far.

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Toby2025 in reply to TRAIN-LOVER

Nice to hear man, and is it your erecr size to small or both

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TRAIN-LOVER in reply to Toby2025

Just in flaccid state.

Just seems a bit weird to me that after getting a full erection and the size increases several times, that it just seems to decrease as much as it does.

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Toby2025 in reply to TRAIN-LOVER

What do you size up flaccid as im about 1.5/2" then erect 6" which im happy with when erect?

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TRAIN-LOVER in reply to Toby2025

About the same as you I would think.

Without meaning to be over graphic my penis can be floppy from 2” up to 5/12”without getting a full operational state but just shrinks back unlike some others.

The only reason I say I have a short penis is that because some guys hang in flaccid state whatever,and don't need to manipulate it to grow longer as I have to , but does psychologically embarrass me in front of of others because of it's flaccid state, but obviously you can't go and say have another look when it is fully erect..

Obviously there is a reason that some show and some grow within the medical world.

I addition wouldn't like to walk around a nudist camp in my situation.

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xsevenx in reply to TRAIN-LOVER

I’ve been to many nudist resorts. All shapes and sizes of bodies (and appendages) are on display. No one is bothered what you look like. If they are, they shouldn’t be there!

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TRAIN-LOVER in reply to xsevenx

Fair comment 👍

I guess it's because it doesn't look right personally looking like you haven't got a normal average penis as most men.

I would like to know why my one retracts so much considering it can be made to expand not only in length but circumference.

It's Just something I've always had issue with Including a tight foreskin from childhood and not been able to pull it back for Hygiene purposes until my early 30’s when forcibly manipulating to do it.

Never had any problems since apart from the short frenlulum.

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xsevenx in reply to TRAIN-LOVER

TRAIN-LOVER , as others have said. Get your frenulum issues sorted. Then sex will be even better for both of you!

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TRAIN-LOVER in reply to xsevenx

👍

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Toby2025 in reply to xsevenx

I understand where your coming from but when im at flaccid state it looks silly just feel embarrased for women to look at it

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SnipperSniffer in reply to TRAIN-LOVER

It is possible to have a frenuloplasty.

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Petit4incher

we’re all different. Some growers others showers. Yep it looks small flaccid but when needed it’s up and ready for use. Never feel ashamed of what u have show it off if others don’t like then they don’t need to look suffered from spa ( small penis anxiety) for years before meeting my wife of 34yrs with no complaints

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Toby2025 in reply to Petit4incher

Ah fair man what age was you when you met, and what size you flaccid just curious and I hate it I can't get my head around it

Petit4incher profile image
Petit4incher in reply to Toby2025

Never been much there when flaccid and I’m not over weight either but once blood gets flowing it’s a grower maybe around 5in

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xsevenx in reply to Petit4incher

You definitely need to change your screen name.

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Toby2025 in reply to xsevenx

Why?

xsevenx profile image
xsevenx in reply to Toby2025

Not talking to you. Talking to Petit4incher

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Petit4incher in reply to xsevenx

Lol 5 is just wishful thinking

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OneJoker

you are completely normal mate = Grower not a shower and above average at 6 inches, nothing to worry yourself about, not all guys bigger when flaccid (Soft) get any bigger when erect = Shower

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Toby2025 in reply to OneJoker

I know but looks like nothing there when soft like micro

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OneJoker in reply to Toby2025

Can I ask a personal question? are you overweight ? Can answer privately or not if you wish mate, just asking as This sometimes is the cause for a penis to (go inside) getting a bit fitter helps, but again you are good size erect so wouldn’t worry honestly

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Toby2025 in reply to OneJoker

Hi bud no it doesn't go inside or I'm not fat I'm very slim and trim just very small penis

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OneJoker

just a grower then mate like many many guys

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Toby2025 in reply to OneJoker

Its like 1.5"/2" soft though bud just feel so embarrassed

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OneJoker in reply to Toby2025

Honestly mate, your only slightly smaller than average soft, and you good length when erect ( when it counts / matters)

Many guy’s are biggest when soft and don’t grow any or much bigger hard

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Pipsqueek36

What type of underwear do you wear? Wearing baggy shorts allows your penis to hang and stretch by gravity.

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Toby2025 in reply to Pipsqueek36

Mine dont hamg bud thats the problem

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Pipsqueek36

Let it hang in boxers. The tight fitting underwear keep your penis from hanging down. Also whether your shaft skin is loose or tight when flaccid effects this

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Toby2025 in reply to Pipsqueek36

My penis flaccid dont hang mate its small

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JabbeR111

The business end of your cock size is slightly better than average Toby the rest is just for peeing ;) Chill mate :)

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