Sensitivity of penis glands/tip normal?

[jeditroopz]

Hey so it’s been a year and a couple months now I’m 19 and I’ve noticed when it comes to my sex life oral sex is almost impossible to orgasm. the glands is sensitive in a way that doesn’t really help me finish it’s just constant precum however, when it comes to having sex I can’t finish with my partner unless I have a condom on for the same reason the sensation on the glands is this common or normal? Anything I can try ? Just want to stop let my partner down

[Colingoldie]

I have the same issue. Lube can help mate and what I noticed was the more I played with it/had sex the sensitivity reduced

[Hidden]

Usually sensitivity of the glans wil make you orgasm more quickly. Have you discussed this with your doctor to make sure there is no other problem? One guy’s situation will not necessarily be the same as yours.

[jeditroopz in reply to Hidden]

My thoughts exactly however, it’s not the case in my situation the sensation is hard to explain for example the sensation I feel throughout sex is what you typically feel after an orgasm not sure if that’s a bit more informative:/ . I haven’t talked to a doctor about it I will definitely do that. Thanks for a response

[circblog in reply to jeditroopz]

It takes longer to come because you've lost the extra stimulation from the foreskin. Maybe try different positions or spend more time on non-penetrative sex. Given your age in guessing you're not that experienced yet so try to relax about it. Is your partner having fun? I know from personal experience that it's important for them that you come too, but also if you're worried about coming it ends up becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy. Talking about it, exploring what you both like and relaxing is the way to go

[jeditroopz in reply to circblog]

I see I’ll definitely keep that in mind very helpful. From what i know my partner does have fun it’s more of a I don’t want her to think she’s doing something wrong cause I can’t come type of situation. I’ll talk it easy and talk to my partner about exploring. Thanks again for your response and everyones response to this post in general very helpful