Botched for life

[Pariahh]

Okay so, I'm 21 years old and I was cut as a baby and because of that I have suffered some unreal scaring, buried skin, skin gaps and I also have two hard masses under the head of my penis, right beneath the skin on my shaft that has effected my sex life my entire life, putting on condoms is painful, the masses make me and my partner sore. And a side note! I have three holes in my penis that I can put piercings through due to a botched circ. I'm extremely upset that I had a normal body and someone else gave the ok to mutilate me

Also worried about getting additional operations done in fear of even more loss of sensitivity and more terrible scarring even though the masses under my skin need to be removed to have any hope of a some what normal sex life

Here are some flaccid pics so you can see for yourself

[Pariahh]

It did not let me upload more than one photo, dm me if you'd like to see more of what is talked about in this post

[At1012 in reply to Pariahh]

Ouch, it almost looks like the head of your penis is partially detached from shaft. It could be possible that yours was botched and then they did surgery to fix it. I know this may sound crazy, but could it be possible that the head of your penis was reattached? I know that mucosal skin is used to help reattach the head of penis in botched jobs. It’s just a very bizarre positioning.

[At1012]

I can’t wear condoms either, so don’t feel bad. I have zero shaft skin on the underside of penis, so wearing a condom causes severe pain. It suffocated my scrotal skin and causes severe pain upon ejaculation. It’s really not a big deal because just get tested and then have unprotected sex.

[S2BC]

Sorry to hear.

I'm for genital autonomy of children- female, male and intersex. Let them decide by themselves when they are old enough. Whether to cut or not. Intact is a normal state. I do allow/understand it for medical reason.

I'm not counting any pros and cons. It doesn't matter. All is to have his/her consent. For cutting genital needs his/her consent, not parents, family or community. There is something weird, if the community reject/discriminate intact.

The society I live in considers the routine infant circumcision as FGM/MGM and an act of violence for sovereignty. I agree.

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[uncutforesk]

Hello Pariahh, Thank you for posting. Sorry to hear of the results of your baby "botched circ". Parents should be aware of the permanent damage that can occur. BTW, "Periah" is Jewish circumcision whereby only the wrinkly folds of the foreskin are removed.

[Jethro5]

Unfortunately this occasionally happens from inexperienced doctors. Can't really see a lot of detail from the picture but there are surgeons, especially in the states who could improve your scarring.

[S2BC in reply to Jethro5]

If there is no "heaven", we wouldn't have to talk about scar revision as an adult.

[pentire2]

Don't accept being botched for life. Seek the advice of a urologist about getting some cosmetic improvements.

[Pariahh]

I definitely will but again I fear losing even more sensitivity and important tissue

[S2BC in reply to Pariahh]

Do you still have moving skin ventral side of the shaft. It looks like your picture shows the place where the frenulum used to be. Is that lump like bunching skin?

I just saw the other pictures. Why on earth had to touch like that an infant penis. He/she even can't see properly what to do down there. I don't think there is guarantee over 21 years after. I think (plastic) surgeon can at least release trapped skin parts if there is any.

[At1012 in reply to S2BC]

I have trapped nerve endings of the ridge band. I have no existent shaft skin in the underside of penis. Part of the ridge band is fused to the glans, so the corona sulcus is not completely exposed. If I press on this place on the glans, my penis makes these jumps, which is evidence of the bulbocavernosus reflex being activated. I also have the ridge band in another area where it is completely untouched and if I touch it, it is highly sensitive. In other places the ridge band is split and only gives the sensation of numbness or pain.

I did foreskin restoration for 6 months to fix my problems. This allowed my penis to actually have the ability to fill out. I was looking at my penis in the shower and it just looks complete in the sense that the skin is richer and smoother and the glans no longer hurts.

I think the OP should try foreskin restoration.

[Ire_cali]

You can probably get that fixed a bit. Are you in the usa?

[Pariahh in reply to Ire_cali]

Yes

[Ire_cali in reply to Pariahh]

The dr I saw in California does revisions. He's very good.

[Hidden]

Being circumcised as a baby and seeing your pictures suggest to me that it wasn’t a botched circumcision but more likely poor aftercare that have caused your problems.

Either way, are you posting to seek suggestions about what to do about it, if so you should maybe make that clear?

[Pariahh in reply to Hidden]

More of looking to see if other men have dealt with the same issues. And seeing if it would even be possible to fix. So yes I'm also looking for suggestions

[At1012 in reply to Pariahh]

Does your glans get hard when you are erect? Do you ever feel like your glans is detached somewhat from your shaft?

[adkisojk]

Check out arclaw.org and/or thecircumcisionlawyer.com

[Mefirts]

You need to get an urologist that use exclusively both laser cut and laser seal. He will remodel the area without using stitches. It is not easy find one but of course there are the correct one.