I have had lupus for 20 years and I feel like a heel asking this question... however, I have always powered through times where I feel exhausted. What does a good day look like to you? and what does a bad day look like to you? It has only been since I am on a medical leave from work that I can see how some days I'm so tired and some days I feel great and it often depends on how much I did the day before.... is this what a normal person feels... I have no idea the difference that a non lupus sufferer experiences and what we experience!!!! I DON'T KNOW NORMAL!!! WHAT IS IT??? HELP PLEASE!!!!