Hi all, hope you're doing well.
So, I'll do the first part in bullet points;
I'm highly sensitive to the sun
Been online dating for years on and off, last couple of years very happily single and not looking.
Recently put in the time and effort to find someone, dodged a lot of bullets, but now it feels like I've connected really well with someone through talking, and we've both decided that we're really looking forward to meeting.
He ticks lots of boxes, seems really attentive and interested, with have a lot in common and there's been no mention of sex (something very important to me).
I deliberately picked a day which I thought was going to be cloudy,it's now changed and I'm gutted. The forcast has said it's going to be cloudy/part cloudy for days.
I really don't want to cancel. SO - do I cancel and put it back? Tell him my situation? (I wasn't going to tell him about the Lupus yet and one guy was put off by it a few years back) Shall I tell him I'd rather wait until we can meet indoors? He'll think it's strange as I've expressed a few times (as has he) that I'm excited to meet. Do I tell him all all and give him the chance to think about whether he wants to date someone who can't go in the sun at all/go on holidays? OR choose a locaton more ideal (like a forest that I've been to before - a lot under cover?)
I'm so fed up with this disease. I'm not just a bit sensitive it's crazy, sun gets through my clothes, and sunscreen doesn't help. I'm not going to fork out lots of money just for UV clothing. What option shall I take please?
We were going to go for a walk with my dog, because after work he is desperate for a walk, so was going to tie it in. Shall I just sort the dog out locally first and then choose a pub with outdoor covering? But is that not happening until 12th April?
Thank you.