Hi all, I need advise, it's nothing to do with my health as such, but you're such a nice bunch of people and I just need to vent to people that don't know me or my family and hopefully get some unbiased opinions on my situation!
So basically, for those that don't know me, I recently sold my horse, with symptoms and fatigue getting worse I didn't feel I was giving her the best life, she has thankfully gone to amazing new owners that love her already. But now I have a new dilemma. I've been with my fella for just over a year, he's been living in a room within a house of other people renting rooms, not ideal, but he didn't have the money for anything else. Over the last few months I've been staying at his 4 nights a week, 3 of those with my dog. He was in the Navy and was put on a housing list and has now just been offered a 2 bedroom flat to rent for the rest of his life on very reasonable rent. BUT, it's another 40 min drive away from where I live, I already drive 50 mins to get to him now, and I wouldn't be able to take my dog as there are no pets allowed. So as far as I can see I have 3 options. 1. Just visit him at weekends, without my dog, and hope my parents will be ok with looking after him, but they won't do that every weekend and I work every other saturday all day, and I'd have to go home sunday eve as too far to drive before work monday morning. 2. Stop seeing him and stay living with my parents and my dog. 3. Move in with my fella, find a new job nearby and hope one of my friends or family will take on my dog. All 3 options end up with me being broken hearted in one way or another but I can't see any other options? Oh and just to add in as well, my fella has been so supportive of my lupus, he's so helpful and so understanding, where as my parents feel I constantly moan when there's nothing wrong with me! I'm the young one and should be running round after them
Please, any advice? Any other options that you guys can see that I can't? Thank you.