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Not feeling so alone

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I would like to thank all of you who have replied to my 1st post, you have all helped me not feel so alone...i had gotten so down that i even asked my boyfriend of 12 years if he wanted to split up as he doesn't need this in his life! He looked at me as if i was bonkers and said " whatever this is and whatever this brings in to OUR lives, we will deal with it together" which helped me tremendously as you can imagine.

I have an appointment on Thursday at the eye clinic at my local hospital as part of my initial " welcome to the Lupus world" welcome pack...fingers crossed that goes ok.

Thank you again

Tricia

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Lisalou19

Awe I missed your first post.

What an amazing partner you have.

I think the two of you together are going to cope amazingly 🤗

Xx

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EOLHPC in reply toLisalou19

I’m with lisalou‼️

So glad you’re here tricia...❤️ your forum name

🍀❤️🍀❤️🍀❤️ Coco

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eekt in reply toLisalou19

He sounds like a keeper Tricia! :) xxx

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misty14

Good luck patty patchwork for your eye appointment on Thursday. Keep us posted how you get on. Your boyfriend is a 🌟 together you will do well. X

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Krazykat26

Glad u found us 🤗🤗🤗

Onwards for u lady..sounds like u got a good man there xx

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CecilyParsley

Bless you. I remember saying the very same thing to my husband ten years ago when our relationship changed forever. I had always been the strong one, the doer, the driving force, the decision maker, the main wage earner. Our relationship now is different but he is my rock and I am his despite the chronic ill health. You will have to make changes I am sure but that is not necessarily a bad thing and in the end love survives. I wish you all the very best on your health journey, having a loving partner will be a huge help along the way xx

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ScottishGirlGla

He is a definite keeper, I am glad he is so supportive x

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