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As most of you know I have not made many post lately due to my Dad's health, so---

To all my friends on here, Thanks For all the support during the trying times with my Dad! He lost the battle this week with his Pulmonary fibrosis!

He has gone to his new home! He can now breath without fighting for his breath. He passes away this past week!

Gonna miss my Daddy!

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Sending you and all your family and friends love & sympathy dear Tiras our Bare Foot Gardener. This is a beautiful, precious photo of you and your dear dad...your mutual loyalty and love is clear to see. thanks for this news...I have been thinking of you all. ❀❀❀❀ coco

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Tiras in reply to Barnclown


Thank You it has been a difficult few months. Now to try and find the new what ever normal is?


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Takes time, no? Go as easy as poss dear Tiras...avoid pressures as much as you can.πŸ€πŸ˜˜

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Now I have to try and keep Mother in good health! Mother and Dad use to travel before he got bad and couldn't. Dad told mother to go places when he was gone. Mother is wanting to do something. So Laura and I are taking her for a weekend next month, after Easter, to the mountains in Tennessee.


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Barnclown in reply to Tiras

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I Am deeply sorry to learn of your dads passing.

From reading your posts I know he has put up a long and brave battle which he has now sadly lost.

I hope you can take comfort in the fact that his suffering is now ended and he is now in a better place.

My thoughts are with you and your family at this time,



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Thank you! I saw him struggle all day his last day, yes he is in a better place. It is bitter sweet, to loose my Dad!


So sorry...

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Charlie xx

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Thank you for your thoughts and prayers!


Dear Tiras, I'm so sorry to read that you have lost your dear dad. What a lovely picture of you both.

Thinking of you and your family at this very sad time.

'To live in the hearts of those you love is not to die'.

Sending you love

Diane🌺 ❀️❀️


Thank you! It has been difficult for the last 8 months or so. I would see him every day for several hours. Staying day and night at the hospital. Now to find what is normal?


It's not easy Tiras but in time you will get there, it's coming up for 5 years since I lost my dear mum and 17 my dad and I still miss them more than words can say, I think we slowly learn to live without their physical presence but they always stay in our hearts with our special memories and love of them, I still feel they are with me❀️

Make sure you look after yourself too, the early days are the hardest.

Diane🌺 xx

Sorry to hear that, Tiras, but as you say, perhaps there is some comfort in knowing that he no longer has to struggle with such a painful disease.

Love to you and his family and friends

Mike x

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Thank you! Yes it is bitter sweet, he is gone and I miss him but, he is not suffering anymore!


So sorry to hear that, the photo is lovely and you have all your wonderful memories of him , thinking of you all x

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Thank you! Yes I have a lot of good memories and photos!


Hello Tiras

So sorry to read that your Dad has gone to the other place but as you say he's at peace now. Sending you and your family best wishes at this difficult time. Hope your health is ok and wonderful pic of you both. He will never be forgotten. X

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Thank you! Yes I know he is better off but, it is still hard to accept. Me well, I doing wall under the circumstances.


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Tiras, you will miss him everyday, glad your as well as possible given the tough time your having. x

Sending you love.



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Thank you!

I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Xx ❀️❀️

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Thanks for your thoughts and prayers!


So sorry Tiras, Draw comfort from the fact he knew he was loved to the last breath. My brother died last month and that thought has helped me. Take care of your health at this time. Live the life he gave you.

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Thank you! Yes mother and I was with him, all day. He was at home, knowing he was loved dearly!


So sad, thinking of you at this difficult time. Hugs. X

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Thank you!


I had noticed I've not seen you on much but I didn't know about your father. I'm so sorry, I'm thinking about you!!

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Thank you! I have not had much time since Dad starting getting bad 8 months ago. Now to try and find what is now normal?


Dear Tiras

I have just read about the passing of your daddy. I am so sorry to hear that. No longer does he need to struggle for breath & what precious, precious memories he has left you.

My thoughts are with you & your dear family.

What a beautiful picture of connectedness you have allowed us to view. Thank you.

Love Pixiewixie x

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Thank you! In the last few days all kind of memories have came crashing back. It has been hard on Mother and I. Now focus on keeping her in good health! Fortunately I took a lot of photos of Dad, they are now priceless!


I was so sorry to read that your Dad had passed away. What a huge loss for you and your family to cope with. Thinking of you. Stay strong. Treasure those special times. x

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Tiras in reply to Wendy39


Thank you! Yes it was a huge loss. Dad and I were very close, he and I were fishing partners. (Untill he got to where he couldn't go). We done everything together. I spent time with him, I can say I don't have any regrets about not going to see him, I was there everyday! He was always there for me! I was there for him all the way to the end. Now to keep Mother in good health and find a new normal?


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Wendy39 in reply to Tiras

I totally understand. I have lost my Dad. 3 years ago now. I miss him and still forget that I can't phone him and chat. Life isn't the same, you just find a way to cope. Concentrate on the positives. And cherish the loved ones you still have with you even more. x

Sending you ALL my Prayers, and Love, I will pray for you both. At least Dad can now Breath again....If he needs to!

Warmest wishes


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Tiras in reply to AndrewT

Thank you! And you are correct!

Dear Tiras,

I am deeply sorrow for your Dad's passing. He seemed a kind man. Wish you all the strength and sympathy, also to your family. Hang in there!

Dear Tiras

I’m sooo very sorry very sorry for your loss.

My heart goes out to you.

Gentle gentle hugs πŸ€— healing kisses and love.


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