Well worth getting a second opinion!!
Presented the case to the Tumor Board and right now the tumors are stable and they suggested a scan at a minimum of 6 months, preferably 3 months for at least another year and then go to 6 months. Will need lifetime scans. Not surprised I'm on O2 24/7 and can't cheat any more. Concerned that this is my 5th cancer so want to keep a close eye on everything including the "friends" (smaller ones in both lungs) but most concerned with the 2 bigger ones. No more rads to the chest area, it has had too much already (both breasts and then lung). Would not be surprised if I went a couple years stable and then they started to grow. Would be good candidate for immunotherapy if they do start to grow. Said I can come back to her any time I feel the need considering how I feel about current doc.
Well in all well worth the time, energy and cost!!
Thank you everyone for all your support - I feel so much better with someone who talks to me!!!