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Ok I don’t know if I am very sensitive or I am just hurt about what my mother in law told me but my father just passed away recent and I get home and not even two days she picks a argument with me about a vape pen I left here at home and now I can not find it and I told her maybe she grabbed it and my husband claimed she did but i offered to replace it and she said that ain’t the point I don’t get it then I understand she just bought It and I am willing to replace it and she says no

Then I tell my husband I can’t handle this pressure I want to leave and go see my mom again and he understood but I offered again to talk to her and still same answer then I told her that I will be heading back to Texas cause I can’t handle this pressure then she comes back at me and says this snotty tone saying well you are quick to run back home in a little argument I mean am I being sensitive or is she being rude to me

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Hello

Just my opinion but no you are not been over sensitive but your Mother in law is been totally unreasonable

Something has got mislaid , it happens , that's life , sometimes people will not even offer to replace it but there you are saying you will and she is been a total you know what with her reaction

You are grieving no doubt and sorry about your loss and you certainly don not need this , so if hubby is with you go back to your Mum's and do not think for one minute the way you feel is unreasonable , she seems to have the problem not you

Take Care x

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Thank u lulu right now she hasn’t said nothing to me I have even tried talking to her again to reason with her and still not a damn thing

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Let it go , sometimes some people are unreasonable and there is no way you can change them

You put yourself first , you have done nothing wrong , it seems she is making a fuss out of nothing but don't let her get to you , it will only upset you and she really is not worth it , anyone would think you had lost a diamond ring it is a vape !

Hope you get to go back and be with people that care and treat you with the respect you deserve x

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Thank you me and my husband are thinking moving further away