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Had a mole on my bk I noticed other week that wasn't there before so thought id go get it checked my doc said it look ok and he thinks it fine but will take it of just to make sure...im getting it done in august I wish it was sooner tho as really trying not to think about it...hope everyone is well x

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Hi Stacey xx I know that its hard to say to someone to not worry about things, when it situations like this its all you want to do, but Honest try to not over think x New moles can crop up all the time with age and the sun and the harsh environment, its when you get changes in size colour and such it could mean changes are happening x If your doc says its fine then he sees no change for the worse x Its better to have it removed as once gone you don't have to worry about it any more x August is not to far off, and will be here before you know it x :) We re here to chat to in meantime if you are worried x :) Donver x

Hi Stacey

My husband had one on his back that he new wasn't there before. He went to the doctors who sent for an emergency appointment to the hospital he had an appointment come within a week. Had it removed following week and results a couple of weeks later not cancerous. What I'm trying to say if it was urgent your doctor wouldn't leave it until August. You take care. Xxx

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Thank u both of u I am trying not to and thinking the same about doc would of sent me to get it off sooner but u no wot its like im just keeping busy waiting for every week to pass so I can just get it done x hope your both gd :)x

Hi Stacey

I am glad you have come & said hello it is nice to see you :-)

I have moles & so do my daughters & I know it can be a worry if one looks different & then your GP says we will have it removed

But it is quite common & I am sure it will be nothing but now a days they remove them as a precaution my daughter had one removed & everything was fine

I understand though with anxiety until they do it will maybe play on your mind but I am sure if they thought it was really serious they would have got you in straight away

I hope your family is keeping well & let is know how it goes when you have it done

Love

whywhy

xxx

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Thanks whywhy its not great wen u have anxiety could do with out it but im bust at mo with a few different things im doing and few things coming up like sports day :) it going yo feel like ages I no that but keeping busy really helps...we r all gd thanks my little girl is starting in September so a few afternoons at big school with her coming up to bless...hope u and yous r well too x

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I know Stacey I am just the same

I remember when I had a cyst I was waiting to have removed the things that went through my head before they did it was unbelievable & after when they did & said right everything is fine of you go I thought there you go again making yourself ill when everyone said it was fine when will you ever learn whywhy :-/

But as everyone has said if they really thought it was something serious they don't mess about but now as a precaution they do remove them

Oh bless her big school already they grow up so quick :-)

xxx

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Thry sure do...shes so excited about it to bless her :)...i no like I said just keeping busy will help to a point...but thanks again it does help to see peoples comments x

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