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Nothing to do with APS but thought if u can u could send us some thoughts etc. delete if you want to but I thought my friends here would want to know 😭

Our house burnt down Wednesday nite. My husband was asleep in bed but did get out. He has carbon monoxide poisoning and 2/3 degree burns. Came out hospital Friday morning but the burns are serious. May have to go to a specialist burns hospital (East Grinstead) in Surrey. .

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prj789

Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear what happened to your husband, house and of course you! My thoughts and prayers will be going your way as you work through this catastrophic ordeal. Take care!!! You are not alone!! Our hearts go out to you!!

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Sending good wishes & a speedy & complete recovery to your husband.

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HollyHeskiAdministrator

Oh Wendy I'm so sorry to hear this, really wishing your husband a speedy recovery and hope and pray you are getting all the local support you need.Please contact your local Red Cross crisis team, we specialise in giving emotional and practical support to incidents like this.

You are strong, believe, you can get thru this, but my empathy for you and your husband in this awful situation is totally with you. XX

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Nesting

Sorry to hear that and wishing your husband a good recovery Take care

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KerryA

So sorry to hear your news. How awful for you both. Hope and pray your husband recovers well and that the stress of this terrible experience doesn't affect your health. Hope you're both well supported too xx

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Tofino5

So sorry to hear this, you and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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justlymostly

Sending best wishes to you both and hoping he gets healed soon.

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Fra22-57

Goodness me.You poor loves.Looks like he was lucky to get out at all looking at that.Wishing him a full recovery.Guess it will take a while to know what caused the fire.Hope you have some good support to help you through this.try and look after yourself too

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Anich78

Wow, thankful to God he was able to get out. Wishing him a speedy recovery. Hoping you have a lot of family and close friends to lean on during these difficult times.

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bookish

That's awful, I'm so sorry. Thinking of you both and sending very best wishes and a hug x

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MaryFAdministrator

Hi, I am so sorry to hear your news, I hope your husband is having great care, I know how famous East Grinstead is for burns. Big hugs etc. MaryF

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Ignacio182

Sending you a message of Strength and resilience from Chile. I wish you a fast recovery from this accident.

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GinaD

Prayers from West Virginia!

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KellyInTexasAdministrator

Oh, Wendy! Sending you all strength and stamina.

You are right- this will affect your well being, your friend here do want to know about these major life events.

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Raw57

I’m so terribly sorry for you and your family. I pray your husband recovers fully. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Rosemary76210

Wendy, I am so sorry you and your husband are going through this. Please know that our love and prayers are with you both through this crisis.

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Vailea

So sorry to hear this Wendy hope your husband gets the help he needs and you get some support too . It’s very traumatic to go through a disaster like this but don’t be afraid to reach out to people and let them know what you need . Sending love and strength your way xx

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Lure2

Prayers for your family from Stockholm!

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MajorKrimes

You all are in my Prayers and thoughts. Seek professional help. There are lots of Drs., Counselors, who can guide you to a recovery and assist in dealing with this trauma.

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LindaMorrell

How terrible, not a good happening especially when you are not well. Reach out as you are doing. Hopefully things will improve soon for youAll the best

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Ozchick

My thoughts echo all the previous messages☹️

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suntap

so sad for you. sending you hugs and prayers.

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Jillymo

Hi Wendy,

To read of you disaster has quite upset me.

How awful my heart goes out to you and your family.

Thank goodness you all managed to get out but the trauma for you all must be unconsoulable.

The photo you put on looks horrific as for the damage it doesn't bear thinking about. I hope your hubby makes a good recovery but the poor soul must still be in both shock and pain.

Big but gentle hugs to you all,. Xx 🙏

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Fusch

My goodness. How terrifying. I am so sorry that this happened.

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WendyWoo50

Thank u all for your kind thoughts. They r keeping us going:We r all traumatised but we r so pleased my granddaughter went to her mummy for a few days Wednesday evening instead of Thursday morning! So was spared the drama. Even though she had no clothes or toys!

From local paper:

Hundreds raised to help Sartain family after fire destroys home in Birdwood Avenue, Deal

More than £1,000 has been raised to help a family whose home was destroyed in a blaze.

Firefighters in four fire engines attended the incident in Birdwood Avenue, Deal, at 11.35pm on Wednesday, February 2.

Flames ripped through the property until 3am with one person treated for smoke inhalation and minor burns.

It is believed to have started due to a faulty battery charger.

Now, a GoFundMe page '#SupportTheSartains to recover after house fire' has been set up to help homeowners Wendy and Ian Sartain.

It is to help them cover the cost of a furnished rental for six months to a year while the property is renovated.

By this morning, it had raised £1,093.

Becca-Grace Shrader and Jack Marsh who started it, write: "Wendy is well known in our area for running the Deal Spiritual Centre and being a warm, kind, charitable and lovely person who will do anything she can to help and guide others.

"I know so many people want to offer their help any way they can, so with the family’s permission, I have created this page so we can help raise the funds for them to recover from such a traumatic event."

The family has chosen not to comment but in an update on the page have thanked the emergency services and all those who have given practical support and donations.

A special mention has been given to the firefighters who rescued their hamster.

The pet has been nicknamed 007 after surviving being in the room next to the flames for more than an hour.

The fire is believed to have started due to a faulty battery

The happened in Birdwood Avenue in Deal

A spokesman said: "KFRS’ Volunteer Response Team also attended and provided support to affected residents.

"It’s believed the fire started accidentally on the ground floor of the house, due to a faulty battery charger."

After the fire
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WendyWoo50

Marnie’s toy room before the fire.

Marnie’s toy room before the fire
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KellyInTexasAdministrator

Lovely tribute to you in your local paper.

007- one lucky little 🐹 hamster!

Hope you are settling the rental. Your world is upside down. We also experienced a home fire in December 2019- awful. We were very lucky- no one was hurt.

Fire damage
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WendyWoo50 in reply to KellyInTexas

Bless u. It’s just awful isn’t it. I hope u are all ok. I’m focusing on a new, bright, clean home. U probably ate too ❤️ X

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KellyInTexasAdministrator in reply to WendyWoo50

Being now on the other side of it, ( having very recently been through this) - yes. It will all normalize. ( one you get the absolute basics restocked to get through a week- that other challenge! A simple tooth brush! All your medications- chargers for electronic devices… the actual devices! …. )

But yes- the first couple of weeks are the most overwhelming. ( and we did not even deal with an injury- )

So this will soon get better.

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WendyWoo50

Bless u. Thank u. We at my parents. Ian is back n forth to hospital at the most and I. Bed the rest of time. I’m trying to sort things. At least here I get help. I told ian we r here until he is better as I need the help. He’s fine with that x

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HollyHeskiAdministrator in reply to WendyWoo50

You both need time to grieve, you've lost your personal possessions, memories - it's natural to keep reliving that night and going thru the what ifs!Glad you are with family and have each other xxxx

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KellyInTexasAdministrator in reply to HollyHeski

So well said

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GinaD

West Virginia continues to hold you in the light. I hope and pray that your soon see the light at the end of your loss/ tunnel!

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