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grandpa passed away.

we received a phone call about fifteen minutes ago.

the doctors don’t understand because he has been making improvements.

thank you to everyone who has been supportive along the way.

may his soul rest in peace🕊

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cat3

Oh Aneta, I'm so sorry. Your grandad was such a fighter, and his determination to carry on after previous injury shows what a force to be reckoned with he was. But brain injury is complex and unpredictable and, sadly, this was a fight he couldn't win.

It's plain how much you adored him and his loss will be such an awful blow for you.

There are no words for easing your sadness are there m'love.. But I hope you, your parents and grandma will take strength and comfort from one another at this upsetting time. Thinking of you all. You're a brave and caring young lady Aneta...

I'll be thinking of you, love from Cat Xx

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imconfusedandscared in reply to cat3

thank you so much, your words mean a lot. i am grateful for you, you have been here since the beggining. You can’t imagine how much a stranger’s kind words, such as yours, can help. Thank you Cat, and I wish you the very best.

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cat3 in reply to imconfusedandscared

🤍Xx

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Leaf100

I'm so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

I can't find the words.

It's a loss and a very difficult adjustment.

Big hug to you,

Leaf

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imconfusedandscared in reply to Leaf100

thank you very much, Leaf.

I am also speechless, it feels unreal.

Thank you for your kind words and your condolences.

I wish you the best and sending a hug back,

Aneta

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Alibongo60

hi Aneta, I am so sorry for your loss, grandpa did all he could to try and stay with you but it became too much. I am glad your mum and dad let you go and be involved and I’m sure it would have been a blessing to grandpa to have you there. I cared for the elderly before I became I’ll and they can deteriorate very quickly, with very little signs, it must be very hard when you’ve been there as a family and then they gain their wings when their alone, but I think they must have chosen that. I’m sending you lots of love and hope you will pop back in every now and then and let us know how you are doing, take lots of care love Alice xx

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Teazymaid

oh I am so sorry for your loss xx

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Pairofboots

Bless your grandfather. Really sorry to hear this. I wish you and your family best wishes. As ever we are here for you x

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1949liz

I am so sorry the hear your sad news. Sometimes it’s the right time for them to let go and be reunited with there loved ones. Take care and be kind to yourself. With much Love and Prayers LIZ 🌹🙏

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Skallagrigg

I.m so sorry for you, hugs

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Painting-girl

So sorry to hear your sad news xx

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teresa12

so sorry for your lost love

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ftt1960

Really sorry to read your sad post.

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bonfire

Have you rung Cruse? They are bereavement counsellors. Sorry for your loss

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