Just read your post and it could be me writing it.
Only difference is Hobbies. Although I dont know if mine count as Hobbies now. I am still starting and not completing lots of creative projects, looking to see if i can make something beautiful, something others would value and want. Is that still a hobby ? Its not really with the aim of pleasure doing it, its most often shear hard work for nothing because it didnt work. But now and then i produce something that is good enough (i think) to keep.
Even down to the housework Elanor, i am the same, but i cant accept that cleaning is why someone gave me a second chance at life.