suffering as well the financial strain

[MICH451]

so tired

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YOU MUST TRY & REST. I FEEL FEEBLE WHEN ANYONE SAYS THAT BUT IT IS SO IMPORTANT. IF YOU NEED TO SLEEP LET YOURSELF DO IT WHEN THE NEED COMES, DON'T FIGHT IT BECAUSE"'NORMAL" PEOPLE WOULD SAY "YOU CAN'T SLEEP AT THIS OR THAT TIME OF DAY" YOU CAN!

[MICH451 in reply to Hidden]

Well normal people say I am lazy

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THAT'S JUST IGNORANCE. WHAT DO THEY KNOW?

.MY REPLY TO ANY COMMENTS LIKE THAT (I GET "AREN'T YOU LUCKY DON'T HAVE TO WORK") IS WALK A MILE IN MY SHOES & YOU'LL SEE WHAT'S IT'S REALLY LIKE. THIS DEFINITELY APPLIES TO YOUR SITUATION I THINK.

NORMAL PEOPLE CAN BE REAL NONGS (AUSTRALIAN FOR STUPID, SELFISH,THOUGHTLESS P***S) SEE MY OTHER POSTS ON THE SUBJECT OF NONGS A REALLY APT WORD FOR SO MUCH.

[MICH451 in reply to Hidden]

yes I know that's what some people are like they just don't understand about head injurys even my family don't really. i get that to about saying to me things like. hints saying i have to work for a living and my so called friends use to say that. how i miss work it was my life but how can i hold a job down if i am struggling with looking after my nine year old as a single parent and get tired quickly. i carnt help it i use to be full of life an energy and be able to juggle things. now everthing is an effort. i really want to work but i am also self conscious of my looks. i new how i was before. and its really hard for a woman if you have scars or facial weakness which makes your eyes droop.

[cat3 in reply to MICH451]

Louise, have you ever tried phoning the Headway helpline for extra support ?

[MICH451 in reply to cat3]

YES I HAVE BUT THEY CANT DO PLASTIC SURGERY OR FIX NERVES OR GIVE ME XRAYS. THEY HAVE BEEN FANTASTIC PEOPLE TO TALK TOO. AND EVEN CAME TO SEE ME.

[MICH451 in reply to MICH451]

I MANAGE ITS JUST I CANT SEEM TO GET MORE INVESTIGATIONS I THINK I MAY HAVE SECONDARY DAMAGE AS IT AINT BEEN LOOKED INTO FROM YEARS AGO. AS I TRIED TO TELL THEM I HAD FURTHER DAMAGE AT THE REAR OF MY HEAD WHICH HAS JUST GOT WORSE EFFECTS BALANCE EAR ACHE AND BLOOD CICULATION UNDER THE SCALP. WHAT CAN YOU DO IF DOCTORS JUST WONT LISTEN.