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I'm reading but not up to many answers.

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We all read these posts at different times, days.

I usually like to try and see that everyone gets a response - even if it's only to reassure, or acknowledge to, someone that they've been heard as I hate to see "no comments" after a post.

There are so many helpful people on here I like to think I can give something back.

I'm very low at the moment and I'm having to step back for a bit.

regards,

sandra.

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hamble99b

I am sincere in my responses - it's not "ooh what a goody goody I am, everyone look!"

sandra.

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debuk

i dont get on every day sandra99b.ur views count..a new beginner on here....sorry u have 2 step back..x

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Extremelygrumpy

Yup Sandra real life always comes first, so don't worry.. I won't be around much myself the next few day real life has reared it's ugly head and called my OH into hospital.... It's times like these I realise how much he does..... Hopefully you won't stay away long and feel better soon

VG x

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fairycazzie

Hi Sandra,

Its 5.42 and wiiide awake with a cup of Tea! Sat with my poochy 'big poochy'

It is difficult at times with posts, as some you can relate to and some you cannot, like you said trying to give something is better than nothing & i often reply to many i have no relative issues.

Different times of day & night too with all over the world too.

I use a phone most of time to come on here so for me it takes longer writing a post (even though touch screen and i am a touch typist, its a one finger job and can hurt),

Also i tend to get that 'ohps 404' thingy and get frustrated sometimes hehe.

I do try sneaky replies whilst working but feel slightly guilty my girls are working and i am on here instead of dealing with work eek but i am the boss ( dont like to say that as i want them to see me as part of Team, because you do get treated differently :-( as they think a Boss is a bit superior and i am not)

So sorty you feeling low at moment , so hard going through different emotions with all this , as its a Roller coaster ( do not like rollercoaster)

This is the place to be and everyone does try i believe to respond.

I think you have a positive thinking as much as you feeling low as you want to try with a Business despite your being in a wheel chair! How many would not beable to do this...

Have you got help for you to deal with Business..

I would have the same thinking because i said as long as i have my wits about me there is no giving up!! You can 'give in' to one aspect of your life because you have no choice! But you don't have to 'give up' it is just about getting your head around something else.

What would your interest in Business be ?

I want to open up a shop as my hubby has a great talent but its the financial side, as a shop is one thing but i also would need a building because the equipment and materials would kill a human lol of fumes. We wanted our shed but its not suitable really for the undercoat that is needed its farrr too potent.

I have researched and of course the houses i get to see as well (another reason i love my job) some are so different and everyone unique !!

So you can chat away about anything at all am all ears!

Never gove up on a good thing x

Xxxxxcazziexxxxx

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Ginsing in reply tofairycazzie

Morning Cazzie so you have aspirations to open a shop what line are you thinking ABout I opened and ran a successful gift shop in a city center for 12 years it was only the fibro and my stenoiss of the back that made me close it. It is very hard work all consuming you might say but equally very rewarding, I am so glad I did it such fun and laughter was had by all. I met wonderful people traveled enjoyed life. Now three years down the line I am getting used to being at home miss the people but not the hard work.

Any time you fancy chatting I am about xgins good luck

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Ginsing

Morning Sandra I am so sorry you are overcome with being low at the mo. It happens to us all sort of kreeps up on us I think it is when you need your friends the most and here we are, you do not have to reply just know that we are there for you and we trust you will feel more up beat soon gentle hugs (((((((((())))))))) xgins

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debz66

Sorry to hear your feeling low Sandra ,it's a horrible feeling.hope you feel better soon xxx

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Celticmoon

I hope you are feeling better soon, it's important to take the time you need to regain some strength as this illness takes a lot of energy away from you. Your comments are greatly valued & I'll look forward to your return. :-) xx

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theshadow

Hi Sandra,

Sorry you are feeling low at the moment. We've all been there at some time or are there with you now. Hope it helps to know we all care & hope that will lift your spirits.

Gentle hugs xx

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enazena

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Sandra)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Absolutely agree with theshadow and I think it is really lovely of you to care about everyone and make sure they get a reply. Hopefully you will see all these replies and it really will lift your spirits.

E x :)

So sorry you're feeling low at the moment Sandra, please know that we are all here for you, we all understand and support you. If there is anything we can do, please ask. We are always happy to help wherever we can.

We all need time out sometimes to gather ourselves back together again. Whenever you feel like a shoulder to lean on, pop back in and we will do our best to listen and to help you along. Bless you!

Here's a hug for you ((( hug ))) x

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wallflower_fairy

I hope you feel better very soon. You've been a great friend - thankyou. Look forward to speaking to you again when you're a bit brighter - however long that may be.

Take Care and Gentle Hugs

wanderingwallflower xx

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louiseelcross

Hi Sandra. Just wanted to say that we thinking about you. Love from Louise. x

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hamble99b

thankyou everyone, it means a lot.

regards,

sandra.

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