looking for hope

[5dfet]

Hi ladies. I’m so glad I found this forum to read your stories. I am looking for support. I am currently in the US. Been trying for kids since we got married. So many cycles but no success. Now I’m on the last embryos transfer from donor eggs. We transferred 2, one was good to fair and the other was fair to poor. Currently 6w 5 days. Yesterday we had the first scan but was only able to see a sac. My hcg numbers were good in the beginning but last Monday they said that the number did not rise appropriately and yesterday test they said it definitely got up but still could be better. Doc said it’s flip coin next week we see the baby or it could be miscarriage. He mentioned something about vanishing twin syndrome? Could it be possible one implanted before the other and now im only having the one the implanted abut later. Is it possible not to see any thing when the hcg yesterday was 9413. Something to note I did have symptoms the first 3 weeks but then starting last 2 weeks not much symptoms except mild cramps. Any one with similar scenario but was successful. Also note we did not test the embryos and next US is next week. Thanks in advance

[5dfet]

I am replying to my post to make sure is visible!

[Beclp]

Hey x I’ve not had a similar experience I’m sorry but just wanted to say I hope things progress well with your pregnancy 💕💫

[5dfet in reply to Beclp]

Thank you so much for your wishes

[Twiglet2]

hey I’m sorry you have this stress. I’ve had slow growth before and had to wait until next scan to see what the outcome was (and another one after that until they finally agreed it was a miscarriage) and it’s a horrible time waiting 😢 so thinking of you. I dont think there is much to add to what your doctor has said it’s a case of wait and see I’m afraid and so early it could go either way. The good thing is they did see a sac so isn’t ectopic, fingers and toes crossed they see something more next week it’s a case of tiny mm’s at this stage so there is hope xx

[5dfet in reply to Twiglet2]

Thank you so much. I was even more concerned now even the cramping k stopped feeling yesterday and today. Not sure if it’s indicative of any thing. But I guess I can not do anything except pray. Thank you again

[HollyT7]

my clinic wouldn’t scan until 7+ for this exact reason. Sit tight ❤️

[5dfet in reply to HollyT7]

Thank you. But I think they do it because it’s and IVF cycle which they know the dates more predictably thank natural conception.

[HollyT7 in reply to 5dfet]

Yes I’m talking about ivf and our ivf clinic. I’ve never had natural pregnancies. A lot of the UK clinics are the same (referring to ivf).

[5dfet in reply to HollyT7]

Good to know hopefully there is still some hope 🙏🏻