FET Day 12 Advice Please

[Pizzax]

Hi ladies

Have had a tough day today mentally. Been really good throughout my 2ww but today on day 12 and feeling a bit all over the place. Guess worried as getting very close to test day… haven’t had many symptoms today apart from tiredness and fatigue. And also getting hungry often!

Is it normal for symptoms to drop around day 12? I had quite a few symptoms all week but now seems quiet since my sharp cramp on day 9 in middle of my belly. No bleeding though thankfully x

[Swimming87]

Hi Pizzax well done for holding on until now! You are doing great no long until test day right? From what I read people have all sort of symptoms and also lack of them, and also sometimes they come and they go. You're basically there to test day, I would ring the clinic and ask If you can test a day earlier if you feel you cannot cope. Just know you're doing great and I wish you all the best xx

[Pizzax in reply to Swimming87]

Oh thank you so much xx yeah I have held back but I think that it more because I’m afraid of seeing a negative so I feel the longer I hold out the more I keep my peace… xx thank you for your kind words

[Endofitall]

Often progesterone side effects start to settle around now and it’s too early for pregnancy symptoms to really kick in, so completely normal for symptoms to drop off.

Your clinic are mean making you wait so long, most clinics have OTD around on 11dp5dt (some even earlier), though if you’re feeling ignorance is bliss you can of course wait longer. Good luck 🤞🏼

[Pizzax in reply to Endofitall]

Ah that makes more sense then why the side effects have subsided for the most part. Thank you sweets xxx

[Misscocktail]

I’m 9dp5dt and I’m n the same boat, no symptoms and as you know you fear the worst. I’m keeping myself busy, relaxed as much as I can and positive (I know it’s hard). Not long now and we have got this x

[Swimming87]

My clinic test day is 10 days after FET. I would ask to test earlier if it's messing up with my head too much. If negative you can re test in 2-3 days

[Pizzax in reply to Swimming87]

My test day is very soon now so I am ok to wait! Xxx

[Swimming87]

Go girl! I'm supporting you 💯💪

[Pizzax in reply to Swimming87]

Thank you ☺️ xx