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[Mrs_k2022]

anyone in the 2ww ? Im 3dp5dt and have written it off. I don’t know why I just have a strong feeling this hasn’t worked. I’ve been pregnant countless times (losses/ectopics💔) so know my body well. Tempted to add fuel to the fire and start testing early 😭

[Zinger22]

I am in the 2ww as well. Trying very hard to hold out to test day as I think it would stress me out more to do it early from what I have read of others. I would just try and distract yourself as much as possible. Fingers crossed for you! You never know what might happen. x

[theMumtobe]

Same 2ww. I always test with no self control, and the same strong feeling I will never be lucky coz it just never happened to me . But life carries on tho .

[Nane22]

hey there I am too! Going a bit mad currently to 5dp5dt and the medication is playing games with me so much! Had a wobble today convinced myself it hasn’t worked and preparing myself mentally. Don’t worry we all in this together.. got everything crossed for you! Xx you got this

[leo1980]

mrs_k2022. I work on the premise you know nothing until you know something. My little one just turned 12 weeks today. Last year this time I had my transfer and I just knew it didn’t work. I know my body. I binned the scan from transfer day, took my meds back to the clinic as well as the sharps bin and booked my follow up appointment as I left the clinic after my blood test. I just knew it didn’t work and guess what it did - clinic called me at noon with the results and by then I had missed a dose of my meds! I frantically tried the dog walker to retrieve a copy of my scan from the recycling bin! and headed to the clinic to pick up a prescription. I even had a pret coffee and almond croissant as comfort food! I had no symptoms through out the pregnancy and didn’t even grow much- when I shared the news with my work at 20 weeks they were like where are you hiding this baby… no bump until week 39 and she was perfect size/weight etc. everyone is different and every pregnancy is different. I know positive thinking can’t get you pregnant (I used to hate when people used to say that to me) but it can make getting through the day little easier… don’t test until test day so until we know for sure - you are pregnant until proven otherwise!

Fingers and toes crossed!

[Goldenfeather123 in reply to leo1980]

Hi, my daughter is 5dpt. She never had any symptoms and never had a positive test in her 3 years journey. And more worryingly, for this medicated FET the embryo quality was very low (day-6 3BC). Nervously waiting, she is going to keep all medications until 12dpt with a blood test.

She may start urine tests from 8dpt. But sometimes I even wondered whether the test strips she used were sensitive enough. Was it negative urine tests that made you think your transfer didn't work? Which day did you have the blood test and what was your hCG level? Was your transfer a medicated FET?

[leo1980 in reply to Goldenfeather123]

Ah I see! No I never tested I just popped to the clinic on test day enroute to work… don’t worry about grade. My little girl has swim class with a day 6 embryo! He is a happy healthy boy!

[Goldenfeather123 in reply to leo1980]

Thank you!

[Trg25]

I am.... absolute torture isn't it. I think my days are the same as you, FET was Thursday so I am 4dp5dt today. Absolutely losing the plot! I am a serial tester and have got BFNs yesterday and this morning (I know it is mad to test this early but you always get those people on here saying they have had BFPs on day 4 etc. ) x

[Mango1990]

I had my first fresh transfer Saturday. They got 13 eggs, 6 fertilised but on transfer day they told us only 1 was of good quality. They confirmed this morning that none were good enough to freeze.

I’m a mess and trying hard to be positive. I was really hopeful we’d have some frozen.

Over the last 3 years of TTC I’ve never got to the stage of taking a pregnancy test, so the 12th Feb will be my first ever.

Sending everyone positive thoughts xx

[Mrs_k2022]

oh wow I forgot how wonderfully supportive this group is 🥹 thank you so much for all your kind words and responses. It really does make a world of difference when you’re in this difficult time! To not feel alone! I am keeping everything crossed for you all 🤞🏻

Stupidly Caved and tested today with early first response ( 6.3 mIU/mL sensitivity) Vvvvvvfl… I tested few days ago with some other ones that aren’t as sensitive (25 mIU/mL sensitivity) they were negative so i assumed the trigger had gone(wish I’d kept same tests throughout -schoolboy error🤦🏻‍♀️) and now obviously entered the whole next level of hell worrying if it’s still the trigger? Is it not? Is it even a line? Why did I do this 😩😩😩 last time I managed to hold out till OTD but not this time . Silly me. For those still holding out to test- please do because this is even worse than the waiting now 😩

[Trg25 in reply to Mrs_k2022]

I have never been able to find a test with 6.3mlU, the ones I get are 10mIU which is still pretty low though and they say they are '6 days before missed period'...

The logical thing to say to you would be 'wait 48 hours and test again to see line progression' but I absolutely would not follow that advice myself and I would prob be POAS as soon as I get home from work haha! Do not be like me serial tester and lost the plot.

However, you are going to go crazy either way if you test or don't, neither is right or wrong so I would just say do what makes you the least 'crazy' and do whatever YOU need to do to get you through this wait.

Sending lots of wishes your way xxx

[Mrs_k2022]

it must have been trigger shot left over- it’s stark white today at 5dp5dt 😓

[Mango1990 in reply to Mrs_k2022]

5dp5dt is still very early, it could have been the trigger but might still be too early for an actual positive. I’m sending lots of wishes your way. I’m 4dp5dt and desperately holding off but it’s constantly on my mind and sending me crazy xx

[Mrs_k2022 in reply to Mango1990]

Honestly hold on- this is next level hell. I wish I had just waited now xxx

[Jorjor123]

any updates ladies? I’m 4dpt today and negative 😭🥹

[Mrs_k2022 in reply to Jorjor123]

Now 6dpt and still the same vvvvvfl so just assuming maybe another chemical 😓

[Kate-92]

I tested from the 1st day of transfer as I wanted to know from the get go. Didn’t get my positive (v faint) until day 9 - Don’t lose hope 🫶🏼