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Hey ladies Alls I keep seeing is negative posts I know this is rough & hard journey the hardest you will ever face, but please try an remain positive because we all need HOPE to keep us going xx

I have endometriosis & pcos done IVF 7 times over 6 years ... I now have 2 year old twin boys & I count myself very lucky every single day ...

The thing that kept me going was HOPE all them negative tests the miscarriages the surgery the mental torture I learned to deal with it in my own way and just kept going & going and I'm so glad I never gave up, don't get me wrong I wanted to give up many times but I just new I had to be a mum.

I wish every single one of you all the luck in the world & if you would like any tips or advice please message me xxx

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I’m so sorry to hear about all you’ve been through. I’m glad you now have your boys- that’s such a blessing and it gives us all exactly what you speak of- hope. What’s so incredible about this forum is its authenticity. It’s a place for us to come when we are experiencing the many emotions that naturally go hand-in-hand with this journey and sometimes that is a wavering of hope. A lot of the time, the advice that we get from this community is that which enables us to get up and fight again. Your story is amazing and it is right that we do need hope to continue just as you did. However, we also have to be honest with how we are feeling when we are in the depths of this and it’s not always positive. I’d say this time of year can be so difficult, another Christmas and year passing by without a child in arms, but most of us will continue to battle on and find that hope, resilience and strength xx

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Thank you for sharing your story. This is such a powerful reminder of how important hope is, even in the darkest moments. Your journey and strength are incredible, and it’s amazing that you’re offering support to others. Wishing you and your little ones so much happiness! xx

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