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hi everyone,

Today I am 9dpt3d FET. It’s my birthday too 🥰 I took a pre-mom strip hcg test this morning with FMU and it was negative, stark white. I’ve read thousands of conflicting things. Some say I’m definitely out. Some say not until beta. Some say it’s just too early since I did a 3 day transfer of an embryo. I dont know what to think. I have so many symptoms, but we know it can be the meds. The frequent urination is the one that has me wondering. I mean, up to 7 times at night. Nope, no UTI. So someone, anyone, help me remain positive until beta day. 8/20/24. I REALLY want this to work! I know I shouldn’t have done an hpt, but I was hoping for a birthday present that I’d never forget!!

is it too soon? 🥺

Am I definitely out this cycle? 😩

Have you gotten a BFN two days before beta and ended up pregnant? 🥰

I’d love to hear from YOU! Encouraging words welcomed! 🤗

Thanks!

CJ

FMU- first morning urine

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Christianbaby

Happy Birthday! 🥳 Don’t lose hope yet! I myself only got a BFP on Day 9, and that was with a 5-day transfer, so I was convinced it wasn’t going to happen. But it did! I’m sending you all the positive vibes and crossing everything for you. 🤞🤗 I really, really hope you get that amazing news soon!

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ChynnaJax in reply to Christianbaby

Thank youuu!!!

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WillowPark

Happy Birthday! It is definitely still early so I would say you are still in the game. That is basically 6dp5dt on a FET so definitely no accurate results today! People say frozen transfers can take longer to show too. On my successful transfer the main difference to other transfers was my constant need to pee/nighttime visits to the bathroom and sore boobs 🙂 Good luck!

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ChynnaJax in reply to WillowPark

Thank you!! I pee CONSTANTLY especially overnight! Some soreness to boobs! ✨🙏🏼✨

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JA-fnukPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hope you enjoyed your birthday Hard to do but best wait till OTD before testing again Meantime eat well - drink plenty and rest if you can Try to keep yourself busy to help time pass Remember to take any meds you were given as directed

Take care

Janet-Partner

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ChynnaJax in reply to JA-fnuk

Thank you!! ✨🙏🏼✨

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ChynnaJax in reply to JA-fnuk

Beta <5 😔

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