Hi there
Hope everyone is aswell as they can be on this horrible ‘journey’.
I last posted back 6 months ago following our initial ivf round ended abruptly with total fertilisation failure (thank you very much for all helpful/supportive replies) which was pretty devastating time. Since then we have gone on to have another ICSI round which delighted to say resulted in 1x frozen embryo. Unfortunately I couldn’t have a fresh transfer as my oestradial was 34000 (Dr unsure why so high as my egg number was in the single digits). Has anyone else had these high numbers and relatively ‘normal/low’ egg numbers?
Anyway so now I am prepping for a medicated FET cycle. I have felt really positive and excited the last few weeks as after a nightmare past few years this is the furthest we have got. However waiting for my delayed period (I have no tubes so not pregnant) is making me more and more negative and angry/hating on my failure of a body. And the more I feel like this the more I worry that I am sending out bad juju and it won’t work. Do you believe in the power of positivity? I think I am grasping at things to control but feel like I’m setting myself up for a failure and if it doesn’t work it will be my fault because I didn’t imagine it working or manifest it enough. Has anyone been through something similiar? I know that stress is bad but I don’t so much feel stressed just more hopeless.
Thank you for reading my ramblings x