Not really sure what I’m posting about today but felt like getting things off my chest .
I saw a web md quote today :
"Women struggling with infertility have the same levels of anxiety and depression as women diagnosed with cancer and HIV”
It’s no wonder we are all finding this incredibly hard.
I’ve been dealing with other hard things alongside infertility (estrangement from parents, therapy for cptsd, near break up of my relationship with partner, stress at work, buying a house) . I honestly don’t know how I’ve dealt with it all.
Lately I’ve found myself crying a lot, my therapist says it’s not necessarily a bad thing - something has certainly shifted.
I’ve also really sat with how financially reliant I am in my partner (the near break up shone a bright light on this) and that changing jobs and going back to full time work might be a good idea. I like a lot about my current job, but in truth the chaotic nature of the organisation and lack of infrastructure has made it really hard to work there.
Ive felt very isolated too, not wanting to see anyone - partly because I’ve been too tired, but also felt the need to put on an act of being ok .
I’ve recently found some joy in cooking again, and gentle exercise - walks, swimming, yoga.
Right now I’m just trying to find hope again, after so much heaviness.
If anyone feels like sharing tips for finding joy and hope after grief and loss I’d be most grateful . This whole journey has at times felt so dark, and I’d like to find some light at the end of the tunnel, whatever that looks like .