4 and 5DP5DT tests both negative after FET, am I out? 😢

[Sunshine92]

Hi all,

Been a long time since ive been here but im now 31 and beyond fortunate to have a 3.5year old from my second round of IVF in 2020. I was lucky enough to have 5 other embryos to freeze and had an FET 5days ago with a 10/10 hatching blastocyst and progesterone levels of 75. It was a bit of a surreal moment being given the same crocs and wearing the same dressing gown to ET as id done with my son almost 4 years earlier to the day and now I feel as though my world is crashing down.

Id got a positive test with him at 5DPT and now im staring at blank white tests in tears i just know its over this round 😢. The embryo was hatching, it should have implanted by now. Is it over? 😔

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Sunshine, oh dear, I wouldn’t give up yet. Keep up with all prescribed medication and test on the day recommended by your clinic. Thinking of you. Diane

[Football61]

Testing on Days 4 and 5 is really, really early! You’re not out yet. I know it’s hard, but try and wait until your OTD to test. Wishing you the very best of luck x

[Sunshine92 in reply to Football61]

The rational part of my brain knows this 😕 but i got a positive on a fresh transfer with my now son on this day before and from reading forum threads id say the majority get day 5 positives. Such a hard journey both mentally and physically isnt it? 🥺 xx

[Kate-92]

I didn’t get my positive until day 9 ! I read all the forums like you did and it sent me into a spin, every body and every baby is different 🙏🏼🤞🏼 sending lots of positive thoughts your way x

[Sunshine92 in reply to Kate-92]

Did you test earlier than that? I couldnt feel less pregnant also i might add, not a sore boon or even feeling of ‘fullness’ just nothing 😕 i have an ape watch that i wear over night that tracks my temps and they’ve been steadily declining since ET. I just know im out 😢 but i hope so hard there’s a glimmer of hope x

[Kate-92 in reply to Sunshine92]

I did, I tested every single day from 1DP5DT until I was 9 wks. I also tested before transfer to monitor the trigger x I’ve read of so many women with not even a shred of a symptom getting positives, my only one was sore boobs but I had that pre transfer x 🤞🏼🙏🏼 everything crossed for you x

[Sunshine92 in reply to Kate-92]

Thank you so much for sharing.

I just did a first response test with first morning urine and again, stark negative. I had a very positive positive during my last round which resulted in my son so im certain im out. I wish we didn’t have to wait so long for my clinic OTD so I could just end this misery 😢 x

[Kate-92 in reply to Sunshine92]

It’s really hard isn’t it - mentally & emotionally. I am so glad you have your little boy & I really hope your journey to a sibling brings all you wish for, if not this round in the future x 🙏🏼