My partner (32M) and I (32F) are supposed to be starting IVF in 4 weeks. We're in the UK and this will be our only NHS funded round, after this we'd have to self-fund.
However, this morning he was told he has a grade 2 bilateral varicocele. This is really frustrating because this is the second test he's had for a varicocele and the first urologist said he didn't have one (I'm thankful we double checked now!). His SA results aren't awful - most recent had count at 150m, progressive motility at 58% (total 76%) and morphology at 4%.
For context, we are also waiting for the results of a DNA fragmentation test which seems to be linked to varicoceles. So, if that's high, I'm conscious that may impact our chance of successful IVF.
So here's our dilemma: do we push back the IVF and get the varicocele removed or do we press ahead?
Pros of pushing it back: 1) his SA could be improved, maybe even to the point we could conceive naturally, and 2) given we only have one NHS funded round, we want to give ourselves the best possible chance of success.
Cons: 1) We've already waited so long to get here. NHS wait times are probably ages (it took 8 months to get a urology appt) and it looks like it costs >£3k to do it privately. 2) From what I can tell, surgery doesn't guarantee improved fertility so we could be taking a hit financially and prolonging the heartache for nothing, 3) the procedure carries risk, although that seems relatively low.
Has anyone been in this situation or can offer any advice? We will speak to the fertility clinic but would be interested to hear advice and experiences to help us weigh up the decision. Thanks!