Tww panic - does pms mood swing mean it is all over?

[Dogbiscuits28]

I am 8dp3dt, have had no sore boobs or other symptoms, only mild cramping from meds. Lack of sore boobs was a bit worrying as am on progesteron injections and cream. I had a previous failed transfer in September, and that time had very sore boobs plus a lot of cramping. This time along with the lack of sore boobs the cramps have also been a bit better, but have been taking magnesium tablets.

However, I have had a few sharp twinges and then this morning woke up with terrible pms - first super anxious, and then this afternoon feel like I might cry at the drop of a hat. Walking home with shopping I felt like my period was starting, my abdomen hurt, and I didn't know if I should keep walking or sit down. I sat for a bit but felt like I was going to cry in public, so came home.

Is it all over? I know all symptoms could mean anything, but has anyone had pms mood swings and managed to get a bfp?

[Keepingfaith85]

bless you, it’s a super stressful time! The hormone’s definitely wreak havoc and there’s no way of telling till you test. There’s plenty of stories where people thought they were getting their period and they turned out to be pregnant so I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you! X

[Dogbiscuits28 in reply to Keepingfaith85]

I did a clear blue early detection pregnancy test yesterday (10dp3dt) and it was bfn. Just feeling so despondent. At 42 I know every month makes a difference, and was planning to try again straight away but just don't know if I can - feels like each time I have an egg to transfer but just doesn't want to implant.

Maybe time to change clinic?

[Keepingfaith85 in reply to Dogbiscuits28]

Hope you have a review with your clinic soon. Maybe they can do further investigations or try something new for your next transfer. I know it’s hard to keep going and the pressure of every month going by. Keep going and focus on your dream. You are doing everything you can. Be kind to yourself xxx