Failed IVF

[Kaarma]

Hi All, hope everyone are doing well. I had failed fresh ET last month. It was devasting. Everytime I see a baby video or a picture I feel myself worthless to leave in this world. My age is the most concerning factor. I'm nearing to 40 and I won't get further treatment in NHS. And as age increases chances of me becoming mother decreases. I don't have anyone to share. I lost my mother she was my strength and ful of positivity. Now only negativity prevails. I don't know how each one are trying to cope up with this disaster.

I want to attain inner peace, so I have decided to spend time with kids and serve. Does anybody know any organisation which allow like us to spend time with orphan kids. Appreciate your inputs.

Thank you

[Christianbaby]

Hey! I'm sorry to hear you lost your mother and didn't have success in your ET. But, don't lose hope. There's always hope! To a lot of women, the road to having a baby is often filled with doubt and discouragement but you must find the strength to go on. I too, went through a cycle of failed IVF before finally finding success at a clinic in Cyprus. If you need support there are a lot of women here who are on the same boat as you (as us), and we'll be there for each other. Keep your chin up! xx

[marns]

hi kaarma, I am so sorry you are at this point, mentally I am going through something similar, currently going through our fourth and final round but I don't believe it has worked 😕

i am preparing myself for the negative outcome and how to find another purpose in my life. acceptance is difficult but try and not let it define you, you are more than this, you are a woman, a partner, a friend, a sister etc... take control back and say to yourself, this will not ruin my life. you have too much good to offer to others.

have you tried counselling? have you considered fostering? if you contact your local authority or Google private fostering/adoption agencies in your areas. there's are lots of charities that do great work for children and communities that you could volunteer.

take care and be kind to yourself x

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Sorry to read your post- my thoughts are with you Did you have counselling while on treatment ? If not you might benefit from it now - try British Infertility Counselling Association bica.net This is not a free service but they are all special trained in talking to couples with fertility issues Also take a look at our website fertilitynetworkuk.org for support groups "40 and over Fertility Group"

Take care of yourself

Janet-Partner