Hi all currently on my 2ww after transferring two 5 day embryos . Due to test on the 10th and feeling soo anxious that it’s not worked .. again.. Don’t know how I would feel this time round if it’s another failed round..
Anyone else on their 2ww.. how you feeling?. X
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I’m due to test on 11th but I took a test this morning because it’s my step sons birthday when we’re due to test and I don’t want to ruin it for him if I’m upset so I’m trying to get it all out the way now. it was negative so I’m feeling really upset and just feel so broken. I thought it would be different this time. I know I still have to test on 11th but surely it would show by now?
I have everything crossed for you! How many times have you done this process? X
Hey, I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling upset, I do know that feeling of sadness and disappointment, but maybe it’s still early to test? I’ve never felt brave enough to test early and tested on OTD. . this will be my 4th transfer, never had a BFP. Hope you feel a bit better soon xx
11th is still almost a week away so it could change - I only saw a positive 3 days before my OTD! X
Me! I’m 8dp5dt and feeling out tbh. I was feeling so hopeful and positive, but all my symptoms have vanished - no sore boobs anymore, nothing 😿 this is my second transfer, first was a 5AB this was 5AA hatching blast. I am testing tomorrow but OTD is Wednesday. I’m preparing myself for the worst. I have insane insomnia and have done since 3 days after transfer, I’m getting about 3-4 hours a night and am a shell of a person. How do you feel? Wishing you all the best xx
Hey - I’m sorry you feel like this. I’m feeling very similar to you but it’s because I know mine hasn’t worked now. I’ve had heavy bleeding since day 8 (today is day 10) and one BFN yesterday. I have to go for a beta tomorrow to confirm the negative.
I know how hard it is to wait but if you can, I’d really try and hold off until OTD because you could get a false reading and the clinic will only tell you to test again on OTD to be sure. A false negative can make you spiral further and then the two days to OTD worse! Of course it’s entirely up to you, just know you’re not alone feeling so anxious and hollow. I pray it works for you x
So sorry to hear you experienced a bleed and bfn, it’s so disheartening. Fingers crossed for a little miracle beta tomorrow though 🫶🏻
I had a day 5 hatching blast transferred so I’m confident 9dpt will be accurate, I have a big meeting on Wednesday which I don’t think I’ll be able to hold if I got a bfn that morning 😿 at least if I do it tomorrow I’ll have time to stop crying 🥲
Thank you so much for your kind message, hope we get our miracles soon. X
Oh I completely get that! And a negative might not mean it hasn’t worked because I have read other posts who didn’t get a BFP until day 12 and later, which must have been torture! But even with a faint line it’s a great sign. It’s so hard going through this and still having to deal with every day life as well!
All the best tomorrow, I pray it’s a a good result for you 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
Hey I’m so sorry your feeling like this.. I’m feeling the same. Symptoms checking constantly, not that I have any that is noticeable.. and may be just down to the medication… wishing you all the best for the test day.. got everything crossed 🤞 xxxx
It’s so hard to know isn’t it, I just keep comparing to my last transfer and all the symptoms I’m having are the same - which is prob down to the medication. The only thing that made me feel confident were some weird pricking cramps and sore boobs, but that all disappeared around 5dpt and last night I had pretty bad period cramps and boobs feel totally normal. It’s so crap isn’t it! I have absolutely everything crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🫶🏻 x
Hi Elsidee I agree with Honey , when I got a positive last time , the sore boobs were on an off xx this could be the progesterone xx hopefully you’ll get a nice surprise when you test 🤞🏼🤞🏼
My sore boobs disappeared before my OTD but I still got a BFP and now they are back with a vengeance. Symptoms can come and go so don’t let that let you lose hope x
Hey hun, it’s so hard isn’t it. I’m also 4dp5dt, and never had a BFP… I feel the same as I did in all my previous transfers and convinced it may have not worked again.. trying to stay busy till OTD :). Wishing you all the best for hun xxx
Same boat here! Why we so hard on ourselves?! Im already planning next steps. Im trying really hard to stay positive and then a cramp makes my bubble burst.
I ready do hope so 🤞🤞any small cramps I have makes me think it may be working then I think, it may just be my ovary recovering from egg retrieval (I did feel sore and crampy this time round after me retrieval ). It’s so crazy. I’m not early tested are you? I don’t think I can do it. Rather be in this bubble of hope for few days xxx
Yes was a fresh round for me. My secound IVF cycle. All the best if you do test early😅
Hi ,
I had my transfer on the second and im going to start testing on the 9th .. only 3dpt and absoloutely petrified its not going to work .. its my only embryo .. after my loss at 21 weeks . Really worried i will have to do ivf again . I am 26 with pcos. I wish you good luck . I guess nothing is in our hands atm , i am also struggling emotionally
Hi lovely, so sorry to hear about your loss.. I hope you have plenty of support around you , this journey can be very soo hard. Wishing you all the luck hun xx
I'm on day 5 post transfer - transfer number 7 of another hatching euploid blastocyst (our last) + an untested CC embryo from our first round. Similar to you I'm expecting it to fail again. The most we've managed over the last 6 transfers is one faint positive on test day. Crossing my fingers for us both 🤞xxx
hi hope you’re well, I’m on day 3 post transfer( OTD 14th nov) absolutely nothing to report 😂 but I think it’s way too early to feel anything yet , I really didn’t get many symptoms when I got a positive last time , so no symptoms it’s also ok xx how are you feeling?? hopefully this will be our lucky time 🤞🏼🤞🏼 sending you loads of hope and good luck xx
Hey, it’s good to know no symptoms may still be positive I’m feeling ok, just abit anxious for test day. Any very little symptoms I do have I think is down to the progesterone I’m taking. I do hope this is our luckily time hun 😊 good luck and fingers crossed 🤞 xx
Thank you for the kind wishes , Definitely the progesterone gives you half of the symptoms so it’s really hard to tell and no symptoms is also ok xx fingers and everything crossed for you, you could even get twins can you imagine ! Hope the days go quickly for you xx
Hello everyone, don’t usually post on forums but it is comforting to hear others going through the same experiences right now.
We are day 6 post FET. I’ve had bad period cramps since Friday (exactly a week before my period due and exactly the same as how I feel every month). We had a failed fresh transfer in April - the same thing happened with pain and I started bleeding day 9 before I was due to test..
hard to remain optimistic here although I won’t test until Friday. Can’t bear the pain of two negative tests..
Hey Bluekitten9 I’ll be also testing on Friday feels so far away! I don’t know how I will deal with another negative either, but hopefully it will be a positive for both of us this time 🤞sending you lots of luck xxx
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