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I checked again for hcg level and it showed negative. Cycle failed. I don't know what and where went wrong. Mine was a fresh embryo transfer of 5AB quality. Thickness was good. Did showed some symptoms of implantation in the beging. But after 10days resulted in negative. Its really painful seeing the result. I think we should accept what is return in the destiny and not feel guilty for the sincere effort put in. A saying - Everything is PREwritten and nothing can be REwritten.

Feels painful that you had a routine of things performed in these 10 days and now you will be shedding out everything.

Is this what I'm blessed with 😭😭😭😭

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Hi Kaarma. So sorry this has happened and I hope you have plenty of support just know. I’m hoping you have another little one waiting i the freezer for you. You’re right, nothing we can do about that little one, so rest awhile, face forward and do try again. Thinking of you. Good luck. Diane

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Nabsal

please don’t lose hope I agree with you everything is prewritten but you know prayer and efforts can change it. I am also gone through same. But we have to keep try everything will be okay. Please stay positive.

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Kaarmaβ€’ in reply toNabsal

Thank you for the words. I am fighting back to gain confidence. Right now I have lost hopes right now. Feels like all the roads are closed. Darkness prevails

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Hopewhite

I’m really sorry about what you’re going through, this is a tough journey, make sure to take a little break from everything and do things that bring you joy to regain strength xx

we can only hope each failure it’s only bringing you closer to having your dream come true xx sending you a big hug and all the best wishes for the future xx

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Kaarmaβ€’ in reply toHopewhite

Thank you for the words. I still have nausea and heavy cramps. So confusing what these signs mean. I think progesterone effect feel that way. But sometimes it's so confusing and each time I hope that I'm still pregnant 😭😭😭

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Hopewhiteβ€’ in reply toKaarma

that would definitely be the progesterone, hopefully it will start to calm down once you have stopped the medicines xx be kind to yourself and allow yourself to feel whatever comes your way , hopefully you’ll start feeling better soon and bounce back stronger xx

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Kaarma

Yes, bleeding started today. But the progesterone effect is still there. I still feel headache and nausea. It should reduce over the period of time. Thank you for all the support. Pain will dilute and the duty will call you.

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